Getting over a romantic heartbreak

[supersunbird]

double negative? so it is satisfying?

is it almost, but not quite, entirely unlike tea?

Corrected

 

[SAguy]

45 is not old? You straights have it so easy.

Trying being gay and over 30. Everyone thinks you should be living in an assisted old age home.

A gay in a wheelchair... so a fruit and a vegetable at the same time?

 

[supersunbird]

#MyAgonyAuntBand

Rather here than r/

 

[epah]

A gay in a wheelchair... so a fruit and a vegetable at the same time?

I just chocked on my anti-aging tea. This was way funnier than I would’ve liked.

 

[supersunbird]

So true. Why? Prenups are meaningless in SA. Judges have chucked out the Out of Community clause as unconstitutional. You also have to share your pension with interest at 15% per year (Most return you get is barely 8%). Then you may be married for 5 years or even less and she can claim spousal maintenance for the rest of her life. That can easily be upto 80% of your salary.

So quite right. Dont do it.

Don't worry, ain't marrying.

 

[PaulGherkin]

OP- how old are you?

 

[backstreetboy]

OP- how old are you?

Read the first page of the thread FFS.

 

[supersunbird]

Read the first page of the thread FFS.

Reading? That's for noobs, he is here to judge, not read.

 

[shaggy_beef_on_a_tricycle]

45 (is that old?), full set of pepper hair, single again (last relationship, before this recent one, was in 2019).

 

[supersunbird]

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She was way better looking than that, I do look a lot like that guy.

 

[PaulGherkin]

Reading? That's for noobs, he is here to judge, not read.

EDIT: how did the cashier thing go? I just saw it referenced all over.

To judge? It is you who judges them books by the cover.
I actually have nothing to add. There's definitely judgement in this thread, but not by me.

 

[supersunbird]

To judge? It is you who judges them books by the cover.
I actually have nothing to add. There's definitely judgement in this thread, but not by me.

I was kidding

 

[ShaunSA]

OP- how old are you?

Looking for a Sugar Daddy?

 

[supersunbird]

Looking for a Sugar Daddy?

I don't swing that way.

 

[shaggy_beef_on_a_tricycle]

She was way better looking than that, I do look a lot like that guy.

 

[ShaunSA]

I don't swing that way.

But does @PaulMurkin know that

 

[SAguy]

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Is that a block of cheese in the glass

 

[Avbob se stoep]

How does one get over a romantic heartbreak?

Very recently got dumped (after about 3 months together, I thought things were going well), very painful (in my chest) and sad. Last time my heart was broken was 2012 but it wasn't nearly this bad, the other 2 relationships over the intervening years didn't end in heartbreak. My sleep is all messed up, I do not want to work, food is off little interest beyond having to force myself because my stomach is complaining.

So to the people with more experience in these things, how does one deal with it?

The more you let yourself go, the harder you are going to spiral. Sleep is super important for all your hormone levels to regulate correctly, which make you feel normal. When hormonal imbalances happen, that's when you start feeling like **** and depressed. In my opinion, you are going to have to take some time to focus on yourself to bounce back to feeling and operating like normal again. The sadness becomes less with time, so you are going to have to grind through for a bit.

What helped for me was going to the gym. Nothing like heartbreak to motivate you to get yourself going in the gym. Some people like running or bicycling to run away from their "demons".

All the best.

 

[Mike Hoxbig]

But does @PaulMurkin know that

Doubt Koosi/Sonic2k is interested in anything except companies and HR departments that have screwed him over the years...

 

[shaggy_beef_on_a_tricycle]

Is that a block of cheese in the glass

You will have to ask @supersunbird .