Nick333
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Nothing WAS done about past events...
Anyway....
So you wont encourage MyBB to help people now out of protest?
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Nothing WAS done about past events...
Anyway....
Please keep this "debate" going....
My repeated suggestion is that we give the money to GOTG who will hopefully use the money to help poor victims of disasters wherever the need is greatest.
MyBB can do that. Personally I give directly to causes I think worthy of my donation. I will not give to blanket organizations where the overheads take a chunk of the donation.
So you wont encourage MyBB to help people now out of protest?
I am merely pointing out the seemingly double standards, not discouraging anyone from doing any good deed.
Yes, because I of all people give a fcck what people on MyBB think of me. Maybe I could have posed this better. This thread will still hopefully serve it's purpose. And frankly no matter how you word things on here you'll get people bitching and moaning and picking your shyt apart so what does it matter how I say things anyway?
Agree with you, and I'm happy to see such an initiative, but I'm not sure if it's about people just being dicks.The point is you comment and 10 bucks goes towards helping those in need. Where's the dilemma?
Agree with you, and I'm happy to see such an initiative, but I'm not sure if it's about people just being dicks.
It's more a question of why Knysna is so special. Where are the donation threads for other sorts of social issues across the country?
Virtually in parallel to the Knysna fires, people were being killed and displaced in the Cape storms, and the damage done was arguably more widespread. Where is the donation thread for that?
Because not everyone is as well equipped to deal with the emotional guilt trip overload you put on them from your high horse.
In psychology, this is called the transaction between Critical parent, rebellious child. Yourself being the former and the rest of the forum the latter.
I'll be honest, I was 1 tiny little decision away called "fsck this guy and his high handed approach" but my adult kicked in and overruled my rebellious child response.
More than likely, there are some people you've driven away from donating/commenting simply because of your non-adult approach.
Stop with the shaming and drama and appeal to the adult in each of us, to the good nature in each of us. You get more results that way. People respond a lot better to a smile than to a frown.
Think of all the R10's you have cost the thread with your high handed shaming approach.
I think it started with a post from Mila, a member here, questioning why MyBB was doing nothing to raise money for Knysna.
Agree with you, and I'm happy to see such an initiative, but I'm not sure if it's about people just being dicks.
It's more a question of why Knysna is so special. Where are the donation threads for other sorts of social issues across the country?
Virtually in parallel to the Knysna fires, people were being killed and displaced in the Cape storms, and the damage done was arguably more widespread. Where is the donation thread for that?
and we should question why only thoughts for knysna
Yaaay it's been stickied. R2 of each donation goes to me now.