How has being in a relationship changed you?

funkzar

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Sorry i don't speak clutch.

Clutch=afrikaans. You an even bigger dick than I thought, but oh well. Such is the education now. Another reason to blame the ANC.

I'm done with you. No good dead goes unpunished. Thanks for that.
 

cerebus

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Being in a relationship changed me quite a bit I think. It certainly mellows you out a lot. But having kids.... now that was huge. Having little ones completely dependent on you for quite literally everything - and when they go through things, you just have no choice but to be strong and bear them through it. If they don't sleep well, you can't scream at them, nothing helps but to sit up with them. If they're sick, you need to pay the doctor bills (and don't talk to me about this one for the past couple of months /shudders). No matter what you think you want, their wants come ahead of the thing you really can just about afford to splurge on yourself because man you worked hard and you earned it, but they need to see an OT for a few months so there goes that LED tv upgrade you were planning. It's transformative.
 

semaphore

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Clutch=afrikaans. You an even bigger dick than I thought, but oh well. Such is the education now. Another reason to blame the ANC.

How racist of you ;) FYI I'm not black ;)

You sound like you got some issues, such as hormone instability. You taking steroids?
 

semaphore

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Being in a relationship changed me quite a bit I think. It certainly mellows you out a lot. But having kids.... now that was huge. Having little ones completely dependent on you for quite literally everything - and when they go through things, you just have no choice but to be strong and bear them through it. If they don't sleep well, you can't scream at them, nothing helps but to sit up with them. If they're sick, you need to pay the doctor bills (and don't talk to me about this one for the past couple of months /shudders). No matter what you think you want, their wants come ahead of the thing you really can just about afford to splurge on yourself because man you worked hard and you earned it, but they need to see an OT for a few months so there goes that LED tv upgrade you were planning. It's transformative.

As much as the idea of kids is nice, not sure if i really want them.
 

funkzar

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How racist of you ;) FYI I'm not black ;)

You sound like you got some issues, such as hormone instability. You taking steroids?

I gathered that. And no I have no imbalances. No roids. Just a functioning mature brain.
 

RazedInBlack

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If they don't sleep well, you can't scream at them, nothing helps but to sit up with them. If they're sick, you need to pay the doctor bills (and don't talk to me about this one for the past couple of months /shudders).

Why does does nobody take my advice on duct tape seriously?

It truely does have multiple purposes.
 

funkzar

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Being in a relationship changed me quite a bit I think. It certainly mellows you out a lot. But having kids.... now that was huge. Having little ones completely dependent on you for quite literally everything - and when they go through things, you just have no choice but to be strong and bear them through it. If they don't sleep well, you can't scream at them, nothing helps but to sit up with them. If they're sick, you need to pay the doctor bills (and don't talk to me about this one for the past couple of months /shudders). No matter what you think you want, their wants come ahead of the thing you really can just about afford to splurge on yourself because man you worked hard and you earned it, but they need to see an OT for a few months so there goes that LED tv upgrade you were planning. It's transformative.

Good on you bud. You understand what it means to be a parent. Even though I've never had kids, In some cruel twist of fate have 3. Boy they can act like brats
 
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I married my wife hoping she'll never change, but she did.

She married me, hoping to change me, but I didn't.
 
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