I.am.Sam
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was going to say the same thing ...the dude probably got laid and still got enough time to study
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was going to say the same thing ...the dude probably got laid and still got enough time to study
FrankCastle
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The Break-Up?
The longer the courtship,the more difficult the marriage.If people can'tt commit to something within a year its should be called off so each partner can move on.
How does his mother feel about you?
A mommy's boy is a big no no especially if she doesn't approve of you and they never do.
killadoob
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He's just not that into you, well lolly says the mother is nice to her but we know most mothers smile when you around and stab you in the back when you are gone 
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blunomore
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Why do you not just choose to live in the present? It almost sounds like you say that you cannot be totally happy unless he marries you. Why is marriage the ultimate goal? Surely unmarried people are (can be) happy too?
I find that with a lot of people - they reason that they can only be truly happy if their debt is paid off or they own their own house or they are married, or or or .....
Don't limit your life like that .... before you know, it is over and you were never really happy
maybe some revenge/rebound/any sex will get your mind off the anger?
Meh. That's the least of your concerns. Seriously.
My bro and his fiance called it off after roughly 15 months of being engaged. It's a lot less awkward than you think ... and rather call it off now than go through with the wedding and then get divorced 2 years later.
RocketBoy is a clever lad and made a good point. Also it sounds like your bf enjoyed having you around in order to have sekzi-time on tap. Why would he want to change that?
Chicks might be car guards, but guys can be real douches as well.
KaalVoet
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Ya I'm pretty much done with being strung along! Told our moms and mine reckons i don't deserve to be hurt again and at least I'm open to meeting a great guy who actually appreciates and deserves me and his mom just said he is a D$%k and that i should still go on the island holiday with him and see what happens after :erm: and he is just having a bad week and probably has a bee in his bonnet and he will change his mind and we will sort it out :wtf:
Both of our moms didn't sound surprised and both said they expected it from him :wtf: Am i the only fool who didn't think he would have done this to me, well that's what you get for putting someone on a pedestal that they don't deserve to be on. The nookie on tap was my thing and after 6yrs it only got better, Although I'm not promiscuous, i don't think i could have done the 'no sex before marriage' thing either that is just a bit too old school for me.
I will have to force myself to see the positives and yes i do look forward to 'playing the field again' as its clear from the majority of guys that posted here, that what he did was wrong on so many levels and that the illusive good guy still exists and is out there waiting to meet me
The only positive now is that i can eat loads of chocolate without feeling guilty and the wrinkles under my eyes fade when they are puffy from chunking.
/me is putting on big girl brooks!
6yrs is a very long time thou and the most confusing thing to me is that every part of our relationship was perfect and going great so its not like i even got a prior heads-up! I do hope i can get over it quicker then i think.
Both of our moms didn't sound surprised and both said they expected it from him :wtf: Am i the only fool who didn't think he would have done this to me, well that's what you get for putting someone on a pedestal that they don't deserve to be on. The nookie on tap was my thing and after 6yrs it only got better, Although I'm not promiscuous, i don't think i could have done the 'no sex before marriage' thing either that is just a bit too old school for me.
I will have to force myself to see the positives and yes i do look forward to 'playing the field again' as its clear from the majority of guys that posted here, that what he did was wrong on so many levels and that the illusive good guy still exists and is out there waiting to meet me
The only positive now is that i can eat loads of chocolate without feeling guilty and the wrinkles under my eyes fade when they are puffy from chunking./me is putting on big girl brooks!
6yrs is a very long time thou and the most confusing thing to me is that every part of our relationship was perfect and going great so its not like i even got a prior heads-up! I do hope i can get over it quicker then i think.
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:erm: Thanks so much, i wasnt looking but you send me a pic and ill decide!I'm single, send pics and maybe we can go on that holiday together
You can always email him the holiday pics afterwards...
Ya thanks Pitbull but how about you stay home with the kids and i go with your wifeI'm 31 Married and have children.
I'll go on Holiday with you. You can see I have no commitment issues
and you pay!Starting to think that a 2week rebound beach romance is just what i need to speed up the moving on process. (Please let there be loads of hot single men there and let me not notice all the happy romantic couples.)
A year? That's totally crazy.
killadoob
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I'm single, send pics and maybe we can go on that holiday together
You can always email him the holiday pics afterwards...
Back off bitch, i been tryng to do the not so obvious approach perhaps i need to be more forward.
Lolly bad mouthing, nasty what will it do? the only logical thing is spread rumors about his tiny penis but i shouldn't talk i am only 2 inch's hard but ya nail him
and i sit when i pee. Not easy to get 2.5 inch's over the toilet bowl standing.killadoob
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dude no engagement?
Back off bitch, i been tryng to do the not so obvious approach perhaps i need to be more forward.
and i sit when i pee. Not easy to get 2.5 inch's over the toilet bowl standing.
Does not seem to work, even the attempt at humour was misinterpreted and girls say they like a guy that can make them laugh...
Good thing you are sitting down shorty, imagine the toilet seat coming down on your jewels if you were standing, the proverbial cock on a block
nope =P
I'm not really the "I wanna get married lol" type....
spending 60 years with someone is a long time - I don't wanna have to make that kinda commitment just by knowing someone for a short time.
A lot of people I know get married... they divorce and sit with kids and stuff too. that cant be fun at an early age XD
I say 5 years is MINIMUM you should take to get to know somebody. people who do it after a year or so is just....well......NUTS.
DigitalSoldier
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Hehe, let me deal with this problem first, can't handle two
Pics or it aint truebut i shouldn't talk i am only 2 inch's hard but ya nail him