Mike Hoxbig
Honorary Master
On court day...Not sure how long I'd wait to let her know I've had a vasectomy...
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On court day...Not sure how long I'd wait to let her know I've had a vasectomy...
Yeeesus, even without the backstory there's some China sized red flags here.Already have kids, dont want extra.
Wants a guy who has a car and job...
Its all about what she wants.
The flip side is it's just her stating facts and preferences so that at least at the outset you know she has kids etc. Most people with kids are already financially strained so the reluctance to have yet another is understandable.The problem I have is the "I have kids and dont want more".
So I should raise another man's kid/s with you.
Shouldn't expect a kid that is our own with her.
And what? Need to be financial stable to look after her and the kids.
What do I get out of the relationship? Appreciation?
I can get the same appreciation for cheaper from a lady of the night.
AgreedThe flip side is it's just her stating facts and preferences so that at least at the outset you know she has kids etc. Most people with kids are already financially strained so the reluctance to have yet another is understandable.
What gets a higher response rate is issuing a witty response to a story and then letting the convo flow from there. Any decently attractive lady has at least a dozen guys trying to slide into her DMs.
Name and number so we know who to avoid please.A word of warning guys.
A friend of a friend is going through a tough custody battle with her ex. She plans to fall pregnant by somebody she meets on Tinder. She won't tell the father she's pregnant so nobody can take the child away from her.
Yes, she's got MAJOR issues but you'd never pick it up until you got to know her very well. I'm just putting it out there.
Sjoe, give this one a read.
I am posting it for a reason & yes in this thread, if you have an issue you know my reply: