crackersa
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Are we really going down the your mom route again?
Lol, I was to late
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I am having a breakdown
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Lol, I was to late
crackersa
Honorary Master
wouldn't you like to know
Well of course!
^^^^this.
It can't be easy when you're doing your best and things are not resolved. My thoughts are with you during this stressful time, headache.
Thanks Jingaling
Update:
I hate to say this but you guys were right. So go ahead and tell me “you told me so”
After the whole thing of parent's intervention. Nothing really changed except the pretence that went on while i thought we were getting somewhere. He changed his phone passwords and I let it be for a while till yesterday. On Saturday we went to a funeral together, spent the whole day there and all was cool except I noticed he was busy on his phone at times. Came back exhausted late that evening and as exhausted as he was, he started making plans to go out. I managed to convince him to take a break and relax instead of going out and he stayed. But again, he got a bit busy on his phone. And i let it go and slept. However in the morning i couldn't hold myself. I couldn't be happy with him while knowing something wasn't right.
So Again, I went looking and found what I was looking. Cracked his password, and got all sorts of chats and this time to the old chick and a whole new player in the game, that he just met on Friday. He has been promising them business contracts and advancing their little business ideas. Promising them all sorts of things. And sad part is these women believe him. But what pissed me most was that he has been telling them all our plans. Our future goals are being discussed with these women. At the funeral he was sending them pics that he took when we were chilling after the funeral. All our movements on Saturday were being reported to these women.
One of these women had an “all white” party, and oh man, He invited the other woman (new player) to this other woman’s party, making it sound like he is the one invited to that party. (I wonder what he was going to do if this chick accepted the invitation). So basically I have married not only a liar but a total stranger, a user and a manipulator.
Anyway, after confronting him, he quickly deleted all those chats and asked me to prove it. how childish! and it turned out I am at fault because i went and snooped around. (not a proud moment, but I am glad I did). So after everything else stuff tradition and cultural expectations. I broke it off, I am done, I am out!!! I will tell my parents when I have finally healed and over this, because if I tell them now, chances are they will try to get us work things through.
its day 2 today. So far I am doing okayish. work is keeping me busy for now.
I hate to say this but you guys were right. So go ahead and tell me “you told me so”
After the whole thing of parent's intervention. Nothing really changed except the pretence that went on while i thought we were getting somewhere. He changed his phone passwords and I let it be for a while till yesterday. On Saturday we went to a funeral together, spent the whole day there and all was cool except I noticed he was busy on his phone at times. Came back exhausted late that evening and as exhausted as he was, he started making plans to go out. I managed to convince him to take a break and relax instead of going out and he stayed. But again, he got a bit busy on his phone. And i let it go and slept. However in the morning i couldn't hold myself. I couldn't be happy with him while knowing something wasn't right.
So Again, I went looking and found what I was looking. Cracked his password, and got all sorts of chats and this time to the old chick and a whole new player in the game, that he just met on Friday. He has been promising them business contracts and advancing their little business ideas. Promising them all sorts of things. And sad part is these women believe him. But what pissed me most was that he has been telling them all our plans. Our future goals are being discussed with these women. At the funeral he was sending them pics that he took when we were chilling after the funeral. All our movements on Saturday were being reported to these women.
One of these women had an “all white” party, and oh man, He invited the other woman (new player) to this other woman’s party, making it sound like he is the one invited to that party. (I wonder what he was going to do if this chick accepted the invitation). So basically I have married not only a liar but a total stranger, a user and a manipulator.
Anyway, after confronting him, he quickly deleted all those chats and asked me to prove it. how childish! and it turned out I am at fault because i went and snooped around. (not a proud moment, but I am glad I did). So after everything else stuff tradition and cultural expectations. I broke it off, I am done, I am out!!! I will tell my parents when I have finally healed and over this, because if I tell them now, chances are they will try to get us work things through.
its day 2 today. So far I am doing okayish. work is keeping me busy for now.
Pho3nix
The Legend
Just glad you got rid of him and find happiness elsewhere or even just alone.
Quick q, how did you crack the password?
Sinbad
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No need to say we told you so, you're probably kicking yourself harder than any of us could kick you.
Wishing you strength in the times ahead - you're on your way to good things!
Y'all Qaeda
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Guessing 69*69 isn't too difficult..
GoneWithTheWindows
Honorary Master
The guy doesn't sound very bright, he probably used a pet name or something similar. OP probably just guessed until she got it.
unskinnybob
Expert Member
Just get out now. Things aren't going to get better. If anything you'll feel progressively worse about yourself even though your spouse is the one at fault.
Heartless though it may sound, the sooner you move on, the better. Cheaters cheat.
Heartless though it may sound, the sooner you move on, the better. Cheaters cheat.
The_Ogre
Honorary Master
She did
I'm really happy for you because there're good things heading your way after this.
It's probably going to be tough for you, but you'll make it. You're scared, you'll probably cry often and at times you'll feel like you can't breathe and yet your bravery and heart will get you through. Your BS meter is on point and you took the first step in getting your life back.
I really hope you'll look back one day and agree with these words:
"You and I, well, we went to hell and back. We made it and somehow we're even more awesome than before."
Very happy to hear you finally left him.
Things may be difficult for you now but once you get over the hump your life and the life of your son will be a whole lot better.
Don't forget, your son will benefit from not being exposed to tension in the house.
Things may be difficult for you now but once you get over the hump your life and the life of your son will be a whole lot better.
Don't forget, your son will benefit from not being exposed to tension in the house.
This.
Ho3n3r
Honorary Master
Wat 'n ****.
So glad you could get out of it with your conscience intact. Good riddance.
So glad you could get out of it with your conscience intact. Good riddance.
This sounds like that movie with Adam Sandler. He fakes being married by wearing a wedding ring so he can attract other women. In this instance the guy married you knowing you got a kid but used all that to attract other women and cheat on you. The way you describe him doing it, it must have been a very successful strategy.
I just followed how his fingers moved when he was unlocking it. used the same direction a couple of times trying out different combinations and I was through!