Sign up with GoogleI have a platonic friendship and I'm as horny as you can get (maybe not as horny as lightscribe). Just listen, and maybe use a technique were what you do is listen out for questions, and listen out for pauses, then you put your input in (easy when you know the gist of the conversation). and while she's talking just say ja, hmmmm, oh yes!, mmm, nooo, really? and so on. Eventually you get so good at it that you can take your mind to other places, like listen to the radio of the shop, of think about how hideous some people are
. Anyways. My input is that a guy should just be confident, and not offering himself on a plate.
Reverse the roles here, you must of course start the conversation (bight the bullet), then just do something to show that she's gonna have to try harder then she is to get you (maybe answer you phone, and talk for a minute, not too long otherwise she'll think you're a douche bag).
But like everything, practice makes perfect. so just get out there, and start up a conversation. I can't stress how important confidence is.
If you look at my brother and I, my brother gets women in a heart beat, because he's down to earth, but he knows he's the shizz with women. Even though him and I look alike, I still struggle with girls due to my confidence levels, but I've tapped into another source which he isn't quite as good at, being funny
. I usually crack the most wretched jokes, I crack racial, religious, political jokes, and people seem to laugh, which draws attention to me, and bam, the girls focus is sucked away from the player to the fool .So if you funny, use that, EVERYBODY loves to laugh. When ever I did an English speech, I maid an effort to put in jokes (usually out of context they not funny, it's the element of surprise
). What you must also do is, enjoy yourself. It's pretty useless jumping through hoops to get a girl, and you hating every moment of it. That's like selling your organs, sure you'll get paid, but it's not fun by any means.
Enjoy yourself, try wild new things, and STOP thinking "what if..." (people usually drink to just let the penis take control because the brain says stop). What you must do is just go in there and kick ass and take boobs
. Honestly, Saving Private Ryan wasn't about some guy that just sat in a trench moping about all other other hero's. It's About some guy that went in an kicked some ass ha ha.
