um, dude, she is not a biker.
she does not even ride on the back of mine, she is too scared.
and just a side note, most bikers drive defensively and do not want to be treated like a pretty princess as you put it. we just want to be freaking seen so we do not die.
also, its another reason why I ride a cruiser, you will hear me AND see me (potentially at least)
But you expect everyone on the road to drive perfectly, which you know will never happen.
Please don't get me wrong. I too have once or twice neglected to check my mirrors and then just to have a fright when a biker revs or hoots at me. I apologise as I'm a biker myself and know how it feels. I have not had my mirror taken off as I apologise profusely admitting my mistake. If my mirror was to be taken off I would not have a fit about it as I know I deserved it. People in general are too caught up in our own lives and the race to get where we're going to be considerate to others on the road. I blame the lack of policing on it but that's what it is. Hopefully the OP will be using his mirrors next time and someone's father, brother, husband, son, wife, daughter... will make it home alive because of it in the future.
Yeah, you apologize, you learn a lesson because you feel bad, and hopefully it doesn't happen again. But your mistake doesn't give a biker the right to break your mirror.
Let's turn it around - you are in a car, and another car makes a mistake which nearly causes an accident. Do you get out and break his mirror? Why/why not?
Another one - you are on a bike and a minibus taxi pulls out right in front of you, nearly ending your life. Do you take his mirror off, or do you leave him alone because you fear for your life?
Actually, it does... A persons mind is a strange thing, and bikes tend to disappear (without any malicious intent from road users).
1) Bikes are slim, so people often misjudge how far away they are and/or their speed
2) Bikes are bikes, not cars, and with our minds that are pattern recognition machines the brain sometimes erases things that it thinks don't match.
Having said that, I think the onus is on the biker to ride with the above in mind. But it certainly won't hurt if non bikers can also drive with the above in mind.
It certainly wouldn't hurt if Jacob Zuma was not corrupt. It certainly wouldn't hurt if police officers did not accept bribes. It certainly couldn't hurt if our roads were properly maintained. It certainly couldn't hurt if our public healthcare system was better funded and equipped.
See? Yes, it is true that bikes are more vulnerable. Nobody denies that. And yes, people ought to look out for bikes.
But they ought to do a lot of things that they don't. Get over it, get used to it, make your peace with it.
If people's behaviour can be changed regarding bikes, it certainly won't be changed by people ripping wing mirrors off. That does nobody any favours, least of all the bikers.