Kissing on first date?

Dude, i think you made the right decision. Rather wait for the second or third date and then make a move. WHAT I WILL SAY IS DON'T GET CAUGHT IN THE FRIEND ZONE!personal experience..trust me.
 
Something that I didn't think of... If a club is a bad idea, where then?
 
Clubs are noisy, difficult to chat. Maybe a chick flick, with popcorn, etc. Can't really think of something else, and it is still cold outside (no outdoor concerts).

But I don't know either of you, so can't really tell. Someone else has ideas ?
 
Skitter said:
Something that I didn't think of... If a club is a bad idea, where then?
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Bowling & then go eat.
Or watch a movie then go to the Magic Company (probably more smack the crocodile type games), a casino like Emperors, Montecasino etc would be a place to go for movie then unintentionally make take her to the Magic Company. Like "Hey, dont you want to go in and play a few games, it will be fun", if she says no then say "I'll let you beat...maybe"
But I'd say dont just do some old movie & back home type of thing, you want to do that and add something a little different.
 
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satanboy said:
Ask female friends or take note of the female response(s) here.
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If you want advice on how to hook up with a woman ask another guy or a lesbian, people who have experience in these matters. Women will give you some crappy advise making you this girls best friend. Dudes it's a kiss what's the worst that can happen but i see that you're already in trouble speaking so early on about "feelings".
 
Much truth has been spoken in this thread:

1) Never get advice on women from (straight) women. No offence to the ladies on this forum, but rather get advice from a guy who experience with these matters.

2) It doesn't hurt to take it slow, but only if the girl is REALLY into you. If the girl is undecided it's best to get things as physical as possible as quickly as possible. As a lot of guys have said, at least you'll know when she tries to slap you that she wasn't that into you in the first place. If you're not sure if she's into you, I'm sure people can give you some tips...or when in doubt, go with your gut. I learnt that it's best to trust your instincts when it comes to this sort of thing.

And to the other guys who are griefing the OP, give the guy some space to figure this stuff out. Not everyone is a mountain of confidence who can walk up to random girls in the street and take them home with them.
 
so how did the date go? where did you take her? did you kiss her?
 
Hasn't happened yet. She was full up last weekend with a friend's 21st and some other sh*t, and it's her last week of university before they break up with tons of deadlines etc. I imagine most people's priorities would be slightly warped under those circumstances. And before you tell me she's giving me the slip I know for sure the excuses are legit ;)

Seems we're on for this coming weekend.
 
zolly said:
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And to the other guys who are griefing the OP, give the guy some space to figure this stuff out. Not everyone is a mountain of confidence who can walk up to random girls in the street and take them home with them.
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yeah, also think these loud mouths shouting 'grow a pair'...actually 'lack a pair'
 
come on now dude!!

how did it go? or did she give you some flimsy excuse???????
 
Oh goodness me I am not going to read such a long thread on a simple topic. Especially since no one agrees with me about my summary view enquiry (mods!).

Anyway. You don't have to kiss on any specific date dude. It has to be a spontaneous moment caught during a close silent pause and gaze between you two, that's when you pretty much know it. Doesn't matter if it is the 100th date. And moments like that only really happen if there is chemistry, else she would not be gazing at you in the first place.

Now whether or not anyone said anything of the kind I would not know since no one likes my summary view enquiry and my eyes take too much strain to read through pages of stuff! (mods!) :p
 
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