money problems with girls

[systemofpurplelimpminion]

But the best advise anyone can give you is, firstly think very hard about what you want in life and then talk to her about it. If you can not work it out through talking, you are just heading for disaster. Statistic indicate that most (roughly 75%) relationships/marriages break up dude to financial issues.

 

[Nerfherder]

Big problem is that it will be more convenient for us to move in together but I didn't want us to do that out of necessity but out of mutual agreement that our relationship has reached that level. But I understand the importance of living together in this case.

Have her move in with you and give you a small amount of rent.... less then what she is currently paying.

Then she still has some kind of partnership with you... also she can contribute to groceries.
She will end up paying less and have a bit more to spend every month. It will end up costing you less as well and you can help her out without it fully supporting her.
She will also still hold her own... but with the money she saves she can put some away to have a backup plan for if it all falls apart.

You can make it work if you are serious about each other.

My wife earns double what I earn, it did not start out like that. in 10 years we have never fought about money

 

[chicken247]

What does that even mean

"the cost of sex you pay for is much less than the cost of the sex you get for free"

"I don't pay them for sex, I pay them to go away afterwards."

 

[winner]

Responses very much appreciated. I think I will have to think about this as hard as possible then talk to her about it hopefully we will have better solutions together. By the way, ive never questioned her ambition or intelligence. And no I am not a drunk, i just drink like a normal guy in his 20s. Once again thanks. These answers gave me a new way to look at things even about ferminism

 

[Tinuva]

Responses very much appreciated. I think I will have to think about this as hard as possible then talk to her about it hopefully we will have better solutions together. By the way, ive never questioned her ambition or intelligence. And no I am not a drunk, i just drink like a normal guy in his 20s. Once again thanks. These answers gave me a new way to look at things even about ferminism

Heh at least some good came out of it

Best of luck with your situation, I am sure years from now you will look back and think, why did you even worry so much about it