Pupil guns down alleged bully

Celine said:
sometimes it takes a bigger person to confront a bully i.e. someone who knows the kid who's being bullied to take someone to the school and take the bully on. in my case my older daughter was being bullied by one of her peers. it went on and on until one day i went to pick her up and she pointed her out to me. now i don't take NO ONE'S bullying. so i told my daughter to stay in the car and i walked up to this bully and asked her if she was bullying my child and other children in the school? she gave me this sneer, so i said here i am kid take on someone your own size now. she realised i meant business and started running. i gave chase until i caught her by her hair and pulled her down to the ground and then smacked her a few times. she was trying to hit back but i gave her no chance. all the time i was yelling you want to bully my child you going to have to deal with me because no one bullies my child and gets away with it. her friends didn't even come to her rescue. when i was finished i said to her this is your one and only warning stay away from my daughter because my daughter and i are one. from that day onwards my this kid never bullied my daughter again.
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That's actually quite disturbing. You are the bully. You have no right to assault a child. If you really had any courage at all, you would have confronted her mother and beat the crap out of her. It's easy to beat up on someone if they are smaller than you, isn't it ?

All you achieved was to reinforce in that bully, the message that bigger people can beat up on smaller people.
 
zippy said:
That's actually quite disturbing. You are the bully. You have no right to assault a child. If you really had any courage at all, you would have confronted her mother and beat the crap out of her. It's easy to beat up on someone if they are smaller than you, isn't it ?

All you achieved was to reinforce in that bully, the message that bigger people can beat up on smaller people.
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Or the message that there is always someone bigger than you.
 
zippy said:
That's actually quite disturbing. You are the bully. You have no right to assault a child. If you really had any courage at all, you would have confronted her mother and beat the crap out of her. It's easy to beat up on someone if they are smaller than you, isn't it ?

All you achieved was to reinforce in that bully, the message that bigger people can beat up on smaller people.
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oh let's get one thing straight here, i had 2 other younger children who were being bullied by this 1 kid constantly. at first i didn't take much note until i noticed my girls become sobbing little children who they aren't. they are happy children. so i contacted the school and got the mother's telephone number and confronted her. trust me i told her exactly where she stood with me and her bullying. she eventually took her kid out the school after a month. i made her life a living hell, she was constantly watching her back after my phone call. when my girls pointed her out to me i told them to stay in the car and ran after her, she quickened her step when i called out to her. absolutely NO ONE will bully my children i don't care who it is. you want to be a bully pick on someone your own size and that will be me.
 
Celine said:
oh let's get one thing straight here, i had 2 other younger children who were being bullied by this 1 kid constantly. at first i didn't take much note until i noticed my girls become sobbing little children who they aren't. they are happy children. so i contacted the school and got the mother's telephone number and confronted her. trust me i told her exactly where she stood with me and her bullying. she eventually took her kid out the school after a month. i made her life a living hell, she was constantly watching her back after my phone call. when my girls pointed her out to me i told them to stay in the car and ran after her, she quickened her step when i called out to her. absolutely NO ONE will bully my children i don't care who it is. you want to be a bully pick on someone your own size and that will be me.
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Celine jou dier :eek:
 
Celine is nothing more than a bully herself. Should have confronted the parents, not the kid, but then they are bigger. Different story if she caught them in the act.
 
zippy said:
Celine is nothing more than a bully herself. Should have confronted the parents, not the kid, but then they are bigger. Different story if she caught them in the act.
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It's not bullying if you bully a bully...apparently.
 
zippy said:
Celine is nothing more than a bully herself. Should have confronted the parents, not the kid, but then they are bigger. Different story if she caught them in the act.
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you obviously do NOT know how to read do you. go back to school please or something. i specifically stated in my one post about confronting the one parent. don't annoy me otherwise i will bully you.
 
Celine said:
you obviously do NOT know how to read do you. go back to school please or something. i specifically stated in my one post about confronting the one parent. don't annoy me otherwise i will bully you.
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Eish. You were doing so well...

Nothing teaches a bully faster than the realization that he/she isn't the only one out there that can be a bully!

Even if it's the thing you hate the most, sometimes you have to be the one to show someone else that there are bigger fish in the pond - you have to be cruel to be kind!
 
FlatspinZA said:
Eish. You were doing so well...

Nothing teaches a bully faster than the realization that he/she isn't the only one out there that can be a bully!

Even if it's the thing you hate the most, sometimes you have to be the one to show someone else that there are bigger fish in the pond - you have to be cruel to be kind!
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he just wasn't reading flatspin. i had a menopausal moment there hahahahahaha. i wouldn't know how to bully anyone don't worry. :D
 
Confronting the parents and the school just gets the bully a month's detention and three sessions with a psychologist...and this only after he had already seriously injured my son. Is this enough to stop a bully? As I mentioned before, the school was aware this boy had a problem, but nothing was done about it then and the mother said, "she doesn't know what to do with him". It's only when the bully hurts someone badly that action is taken.
 
Celine said:
you obviously do NOT know how to read do you. go back to school please or something. i specifically stated in my one post about confronting the one parent. don't annoy me otherwise i will bully you.
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I can read, I just don't agree with your response. Deal with it.

You wanna bully me? Bring it on. Pack the spandex please.
 
someone bullies my kid, that kid is going to get a visit from me very soon.

so the kid too the matters into his hand and killed him. why was he bullying him in the first place? it wasn't some random murder, it was a kid who felt threatened and scared. there is a big difference between going to school and stabbing everyone you see and taking out one person
 
Next headline.... 'Celine and sts shot by victim. The people approve.'
 
To cut a long story short, the guy who bullied us as kids eventually shot dead one of my friends.
 
corp punishment doesn't stop bullying. the bully just sorts you out after school for reporting him.
 
R13... said:
corp punishment doesn't stop bullying. the bully just sorts you out after school for reporting him.
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I agree. People in here seem to think a bully is only a behaviour issue. Something which can be corrected overnight with a good hiding. They fail to see the phisiological issue. Bullying is just the symptom of a underlying cause. Trust me no parent want their child to be a bully or to have any other disorders, mental or otherwise.
 
Sometimes there comes a point where violence (or at least the threat of violence) becomes necessary.

P.S. For those of you who are speaking but have never been bullied, please watch the recent documentary called Bully. It will open your eyes as to some of the pain kids put each other through.
 
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