question about friendship

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Nick333 said:
Its not about who you kick out its about how you would react to a betrayal from a friend.

Clearly you see a friend telling your wife about your infedelity as a betrayal but its cool if he sleeps with your wife. I can't really argue with you there because I have no frame of reference for your rather eclectic value system.

Or you could just be full of ****.
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i think this is pretty much how i feel about comments made by pitbull.
 
halicon said:
and a side note to killadoob. i dont think you made a mistake, I just think you have more class then your friend and i think you value your relationship with your partner more then your friend which is fine.
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QFT.
 
halicon said:
there two kinds of class.

the kind where you have upper and lower class which is based on income.

then there is class in terms of elegance and character. eg. that man has class or more on topic, killadoob's mate has no class.

but it is futile trying to explain this as generally white south african men tend to think class is the car you drive, because in general south african men are socially, emotionally and mentally immature as has been proven in this thread.

and ofcourse i will get flamed, told to fsck off or be called a bigot - but i am used to that by now.

it really is inconsequential considering on this forum we are what we want others to see, i just cant understand why anyone would flaunt their severely primitive and sadly sick value system.

and a side note to killadoob. i dont think you made a mistake, I just think you have more class then your friend and i think you value your relationship with your partner more then your friend which is fine.
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If you read what I wrote, I actually agreed with you about the course of action the OP took. What I had a problem with is the way you attack people and immediately claim the moral high ground and dismiss others as "low class" individuals. Some people have difficulty articulating themselves and sometimes comments are misconstrued. I'm sorry to say it but you're clearly the aggressor in this case, riding in with your shiny armor on your white steed, calling every male who posted a "juvenile teenage girl" and insinuating that all white males are neanderthals.

Anyway, I think I've said enough in this thread so I'll withdraw from it now.

killadoob, I agree with what you said and I think you did the right thing, for what it's worth.

Pitbull, I see what you're saying and I agree with a lot of what you say as well. In this specific case, however, there wasn't an option. I wouldn't allow a friend to sleep with an aids infested prossie in the first place but if he did and he didn't tell his girl on his own, I'd feel obliged to do so. Think about it this way, he could have saved a life!
 
Nocturnity said:
If you read what I wrote, I actually agreed with you about the course of action the OP took. What I had a problem with is the way you attack people and immediately claim the moral high ground and dismiss others as "low class" individuals. Some people have difficulty articulating themselves and sometimes comments are misconstrued. I'm sorry to say it but you're clearly the aggressor in this case, riding in with your shiny armor on your white steed, calling every male who posted a "juvenile teenage girl" and insinuating that all white males are neanderthals.

Anyway, I think I've said enough in this thread so I'll withdraw from it now.

killadoob, I agree with what you said and I think you did the right thing, for what it's worth.

Pitbull, I see what you're saying and I agree with a lot of what you say as well. In this specific case, however, there wasn't an option. I wouldn't allow a friend to sleep with an aids infested prossie in the first place but if he did and he didn't tell his girl on his own, I'd feel obliged to do so. Think about it this way, he could have saved a life!
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And i agree fully to that, i never even thought about the HIV part, this I highlighted to Pixie that if that thought crossed my mind at that time, I would have prob done the same that Killadoob did. That being said. My ref. was into general things men do. If he smoothes a chick in a night club who am I to rat him out. If we where in a massive fight and one of us gets locked up. I will not rat on the others and take it on myself. That is what I'm referring to.

In the OP I would prob. not have been able to rat him out cos I was there also. My wife will have a biatch fit if I was in a place like that. No way I will say we where there and X bonked a chick. That is more about saving my own skin than anything else :D

But I feel ratting out a mate is a big no-no. It's not my place to mingle in their business. That i think is my closing argument :p
 
In the OP I would prob. not have been able to rat him out cos I was there also. My wife will have a biatch fit if I was in a place like that. No way I will say we where there and X bonked a chick. That is more about saving my own skin than anything else
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Ya.. I thought about that as well. What did your chick have to say about the brothel ?

BTW.. what did YOU do there ??
 
Nocturnity said:
What I had a problem with is the way you attack people and immediately claim the moral high ground and dismiss others as "low class" individuals. Some people have difficulty articulating themselves and sometimes comments are misconstrued. I'm sorry to say it but you're clearly the aggressor in this case, riding in with your shiny armor on your white steed, calling every male who posted a "juvenile teenage girl" and insinuating that all white males are neanderthals.
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wtf - all the myadsl men come on to this thread saying that killadoob shouldnt have ratted his friend out, but its okay for men to shag whores behind their backs, even their wives??????

I come on saying the men on this thread have no class and i am the baddie.

is it because the class issue rings true?

the majority of the 'men' on this thread have NO CLASS and in that i have every right to come onto this thread and say that as you do your opinion, except i don't get all trivial and quote posts in my signature and tell people to fsck off.

that i guess is reserved for the low class fools who seem to be many crawling out from the woodwork.

and then the best is i am the aggressor - my god you 'men' are pathetic.
 
halicon said:
wtf - all the myadsl men come on to this thread saying that killadoob shouldnt have ratted his friend out, but its okay for men to shag whores behind their backs, even their wives??????

I come on saying the men on this thread have no class and i am the baddie.

is it because the class issue rings true?

the majority of the 'men' on this thread have NO CLASS and in that i have every right to come onto this thread and say that as you do your opinion, except i don't get all trivial and quote posts in my signature and tell people to fsck off.

that i guess is reserved for the low class fools who seem to be many crawling out from the woodwork.

and then the best is i am the aggressor - my god you 'men' are pathetic.
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What wrong with the quote ?

Reminds me to be humble and what fools there are out there. Your lvl of class by your own standards just sounds dull. You have a wife ?
 
halicon said:
nothing, merely the actions, but i shouldn't expect more from you. I would be a fool for thinking you will ever amount to more then what you currently are.
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Yea, true.

I earn a BIG salary, I have a beautifull wife who loves me, 2 beautifull kids who loves me dearly and I have 100's of friends.

I don't need your approval to enjoy my life that I live :D. I'm having fun with living once, so does my wife and my children.

I think you FAIL in all the above tbh ;)
 
chiskop said:
What's your salary got to do with anything? :confused:
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He mentioned something about what salary one earns and so forth.... little further back. I know it's irrelevant.... But my life is a success and I'm enjoying it. I don't need halicon's approval on anything. He lives he's life and I live myne.

He has a dull and borring life, I'm sitting back and enjoying the ride :D
 
Close the thread ! Quick! Before another poster comes on here!
 
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