question about friendship

[nocilah]

Just answer the question

if you are looking to somehow justify your lack of character and self worth you are barking up the wrong tree.

as i said before the 'men' in this thread are pathetic - so please do not attempt to drag me in your inanely pathetic concept of what a "man friendship" is all about because we are on entirely two different worlds.

its a class thing, something one can not understand if they do not have it.

 

[Pitbull]

if you are looking to somehow justify your lack of character and self worth you are barking up the wrong tree.

as i said before the 'men' in this thread are pathetic - so please do not attempt to drag me in your inanely pathetic concept of what a "man friendship" is all about because we are on entirely two different worlds.

its a class thing, something one can not understand if they do not have it.

Then fk off out of the thread and go be a pansy some where else.

You're just trolling here if you have nothing worth while to say

 

[chiskop]

Then fk off out of the thread and go be a pansy some where else.

You're just trolling here if you have nothing worth while to say

So, if he disagrees with you, he's trolling?

 

[Pitbull]

So, if he disagrees with you, he's trolling?

Nope not at all,

He's adding comments and avoids the questions in relation to the topic.

 

[Pixie22]

Wow, Pixie you actually swayed me on this specific scenario. The OP didn't "rat out" he's mate on that reason though. He did it cos he felt they will be caught out. There is a difference.

But I fully agree with the Prossie thing

If a mate has a nice warm and cozy kissing excapade with a woman at a night club as an example, do you still think it's my duty to rat him out ?

In every situation Id talk to him first to get some perspective, and probably suggest that he talk about it with his gf/wife. Its an ugly solution, but its the best. I'd tell him he's putting me in a very difficult position, and ask him why he did it, and whether he wants to be the kind of person that deceives (If thats whats happening). You are right about friends that we have grown up with. There is a bond. And I believe that my friends take my words more seriously than some random sex or kissing session lol

 

[Pixie22]

She shouldn't sleep around :/ Unless she's single.

lololol

 

[Pitbull]

In every situation Id talk to him first to get some perspective, and probably suggest that he talk about it with his gf/wife. Its an ugly solution, but its the best. I'd tell him he's putting me in a very difficult position, and ask him why he did it, and whether he wants to be the kind of person that deceives (If thats whats happening). You are right about friends that we have grown up with. There is a bond. And I believe that my friends take my words more seriously than some random sex lol

You sound like a very respectfull person

I think it's more to how the group of friends are. I mean I can tell them what ever I like, no way in hell they will listen to me..... and like wise

When we where younger we will walk past a group of flats, even before someone could say or do anything you would see someone take a stone and chuck it at a window. Then u run like hell.

If one of us was caught we knew not to worry as he'll take it on himself and will never give anyone away. We have been in some nasty trouble a couple of times. Thing is, if you're caught it's your baby and yours alone. We where never there

 

[nocilah]

Then fk off out of the thread and go be a pansy some where else.

You're just trolling here if you have nothing worth while to say

perhaps you like to slap your 'man' friends on the but after a game of touch rugby and have clandestine conversations about their conquests with women they have paid for and think this is cool because in your small and pitiful existence you see this as being a 'man'.

because i yanked your chain and p1ssed on your parade you have to be all 'man' like and tell me fsck off.

real classy.

ps. i answered your question the first time in case you missed that.

 

[Pitbull]

perhaps you like to slap your 'man' friends on the but after a game of touch rugby and have clandestine conversations about their conquests with women they have paid for and think this is cool because in your small and pitiful existence you see this as being a 'man'.

because i yanked your chain and p1ssed on your parade you have to be all 'man' like and tell me fsck off.

real classy.

ps. i answered your question the first time in case you missed that.

We even wash each others backs

Go play house mate, this is not a discussion your eyes should see

 

[nocilah]

We even wash each others backs

Go play house mate, this is not a discussion your eyes should see

because you have no class and i point this out you get angry like a REAL MAN, and now you are implying i am juvenile with your very own juvenile comment.

classy. real classy.

I think you have proved my point in your lack of class, but please feel free to carry on with your highly valuable comments on being a MAN.

 

[Pitbull]

because you have no class and i point this out you get angry like a REAL MAN, and now you are implying i am juvenile with your very own juvenile comment.

classy. real classy.

I think you have proved my point in your lack of class, but please feel free to carry on with your highly valuable comments on being a MAN.

U don't know me, but one day maybe we'll meet somewhere and who knows. You might think differently.

Class I have, might not be according to your standards but I'm not here to befriend you or marry you. So it's irrelevant

Man I am, just ask the nice ladies, and the people who know me personally

Learn to live, your life sounds rather gloomy and dull

 

[nocilah]

Class I have.

right.

that has to be quote of the day. after your rants to even say that.

classy. real classy.

 

[sabagamma]

In every situation Id talk to him first to get some perspective, and probably suggest that he talk about it with his gf/wife. Its an ugly solution, but its the best. I'd tell him he's putting me in a very difficult position, and ask him why he did it, and whether he wants to be the kind of person that deceives (If thats whats happening). You are right about friends that we have grown up with. There is a bond. And I believe that my friends take my words more seriously than some random sex or kissing session lol

I agree with you, good thinking.

 

[Nick333]

Here's a question for Pitbull: Since you value your male friends above your wife, what would you do if one of your buddies slept with another buddies wife and told you about it? What does the hunter/warrior code have to say about that?

 

[Ou grote]

Here's a question for Pitbull: Since you value your male friends above your wife, what would you do if one of your buddies slept with another buddies wife and told you about it? What does the hunter/warrior code have to say about that?

Or your own wife, and all your friends knew about it.
Would u want them to tell?

 

[Pitbull]

Here's a question for Pitbull: Since you value your male friends above your wife, what would you do if one of your buddies slept with another buddies wife and told you about it? What does the hunter/warrior code have to say about that?

Or your own wife, and all your friends knew about it.
Would u want them to tell?

I would prefer not to know.

I will not rat on him. Like mentioned before what comes around goes around.
If my wife feels she needs to be with one of my friends instead of me, that is her choice to make. If I find out, then it's clear she made her choice and i'll move on.... That's life aint it ?

She would prob be happy and he'll still be my friend. Like I said.... Brothers

 

[Nick333]

Or your own wife, and all your friends knew about it.
Would u want them to tell?

Yeah thats actually a better question.

 

[Nick333]

I would prefer not to know.

I will not rat on him. Like mentioned before what comes around goes around.
If my wife feels she needs to be with one of my friends instead of me, that is her choice to make. If I find out, then it's clear she made her choice and i'll move on.... That's life aint it ?

Riiiiight.

The question is really to gauge what you would do in a scenario where a friend betrays another friends loyalty.

 

[Ou grote]

I would prefer not to know.

I will not rat on him. Like mentioned before what comes around goes around.
If my wife feels she needs to be with one of my friends instead of me, that is her choice to make. If I find out, then it's clear she made her choice and i'll move on.... That's life aint it ?

She would prob be happy and he'll still be my friend. Like I said.... Brothers

Ok, you're more mature than me then.
I reckon I'd be a tad upset.

 

[Pitbull]

Riiiiight.

The question is really to gauge what you would do in a scenario where a friend betrays another friends loyalty.

What do you guys want me to say ?

What i said is the truth, my wife make me very happy and I hope I'm making her happy too. If she's not happy she will find another person. Might as well be someone I know.

For something like that to happen both needs to agree to what is happening, it's not just he's fault or her fault. You guys are saying I must kick the friend out and keep the wife ?