question about friendship

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sabagamma said:
What pickle? Were you serious when you asked if I would give my word to a marauding rapist? Do I have to answer that? Well I will state the obvious for you, I will tell the rapist, "Hell NO!" and be off to the cops. You probably would tell him that his secret is safe with you and then be off to the cops as well. Difference being that in your own mind you consider yourself a hero for doing the right thing but in fact you were too much of a coward to tell him what your intentions were in the first place.
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Ahem

Of course I wouldn't make the promise in the first place though

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You see that's the difference. If for whatever crazy reason I might have said yes I would have realised later on the error of my ways and gone back on my word. You on the other hand would have stubbornly stood by your word no matter the damage it causes.

It's simple ( stay with me here. Leave the line of coke for later :D) Person A promises person B he'll keep quiet while Person B rapes an innocent woman but Person A has an attack of conscience the following day and reports it to the police. I would support him going back on his word. You on the other would condemn him for going back on his word.

I took drugs,
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Obviously took far to many ;)
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I don't see the problem you don't go whoring if you have a g/f, cheating is cheating just your friend decided to pay for it. You wouldnt want your g/f to do it to you and if she did you would want someone to tell you so you could decide how to deal with the situation. I hate cheaters. I have seen too many families broken up.
 
Syndyre said:
What if you agreed to keep quiet about something that was seemingly meaningless at the time but you later found out was related to e.g. a rape? Would you not break your word for anything?
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First of all, it's a different thing entirely. I'll answer it this way, if I was in some way deceived into giving my word (which isn't the case here, and no being coked up/on X does not count) and I later found out that a serious crime had been committed I may consider breaking my word. But most certainly not if it was a friend of mine and DEFINITELY not before I confronted him first to find out what the hell was going on!

Pitbull said:
This is why friends don't take friends like you with them, they take friends like me with :D
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+1! :D
 
Debbie2 said:
killadoob you'd be regretting it a forkload more if you hadn't told your fiance.



Are you married Pitbull?
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Yup

But i've been with my current friends since i was about 10 years old. What ever happens when the woman is not arround stays between us, always.... no matter who or what ;)
 
Don't listen to the troglodytes killa. Wives may come and go but the chances are you'll be with one of them until death. Unless you put your friends before her in which case you'll end up dying pathetic and alone.

People who have the same friends in middle age that they had at ten have probably still got the same values they had at ten. Which would explain why they think screwing prossies aint no thang.
 
Pitbull said:
Yup

But i've been with my current friends since i was about 10 years old. What ever happens when the woman is not arround stays between us, always.... no matter who or what ;)
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Aslong as the woman do the same I see no problem.
 
Nick333 said:
Don't listen to the troglodytes killa. Wives may come and go but the chances are you'll be with one of them until death. Unless you put your friends before her in which case you'll end up dying pathetic and alone.

People who have the same friends in middle age that they had at ten have probably still got the same values they had at ten. Which would explain why they think screwing prossies aint no thang.
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Stop sprouting so much sense. You making me uncomfortable :(
 
Pitbull said:
Yup

But i've been with my current friends since i was about 10 years old. What ever happens when the woman is not arround stays between us, always.... no matter who or what ;)
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Does your wife know that you consider your relationships with your friends to trump your relationship with her? Does she know that you believe in "bro's before ho's"? Does she know that you are of the opinion that wives will "come and go"?

Does she know that you and your friends visit whore houses and adopt a "what happens in Vegas" attitude?

Pitbull would you print out this thread and show it to her? Or is she living in the dark as to the nature of the man she has married?

You have every right to decide how to live your life. But so does your wife. If you are keeping her in the dark about your attitudes and opinions as expressed in this thread, then you are robbing her of the opportunity to make an informed choice about whether or not she wants to be married to you.

Food for thought Pitbull-
1) the truth ALWAYS comes out.
2) what goes around, comes around.
 
Debbie2 said:
Does your wife know that you consider your relationships with your friends to trump your relationship with her? Does she know that you believe in "bro's before ho's"? Does she know that you are of the opinion that wives will "come and go"?

Does she know that you and your friends visit whore houses and adopt a "what happens in Vegas" attitude?

Pitbull would you print out this thread and show it to her? Or is she living in the dark as to the nature of the man she has married?

You have every right to decide how to live your life. But so does your wife. If you are keeping her in the dark about your attitudes and opinions as expressed in this thread, then you are robbing her of the opportunity to make an informed choice about whether or not she wants to be married to you.

Food for thought Pitbull-
1) the truth ALWAYS comes out.
2) what goes around, comes around.
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I think that is where you lost the plot.

She knows me, she got me this way and loves me for who and what i am.

When we go an weekends away she doesn't even ask what we did, just how it was. I do the same if she goes for Ladies nights out and so forth. What is good for me is good for her.

I will never try and fish out what she did and where they went. It's up to her what she tells me and what she doesn't. It's called a happy and open relationship. She trusts me fully and I do trust her fully too. If we rock up at a Prossie place she knows I won't knock one, I know she will not do the same.

That is why we are each others best friend ;)

I don't go and tell my friends how I bonk'd my wife in my Father in-laws swimming pool... so why would I tell her what my friends and I did :confused:
 
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Pitbull said:
I think that is where you lost the plot.

She knows me, she got me this way and loves me for who and what i am.

When we go an weekends away she doesn't even ask what we did, just how it was. I do the same if she goes for Ladies nights out and so forth. What is good for me is good for her.

I will never try and fish out what she did and where they went. It's up to her what she tells me and what she doesn't. It's called a happy and open relationship. She trusts me fully and I do trust her fully too. If we rock up at a Prossie place she knows I won't knock one, I know she will not do the same.

That is why we are each others best friend ;)

I don't go and tell my friends how I bonk'd my wife in my Father in-laws swimming pool... so why would I tell her what my friends and I did :confused:
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From my perspective, either you have a very strange marriage, or you're standing in a very long river named de Nile.

[Of course when you go to whorehouses it's your friends who do the dirty, not you. :rolleyes:]
 
Debbie2 said:
From my perspective, either you have a very strange marriage, or you're standing in a very long river named de Nile.

[Of course when you go to whorehouses it's your friends who do the dirty, not you. :rolleyes:]
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Maybe go visit my HIV/Aids thread. I will never bonk anyone except my wife. Even if I do tease alot some times.

We have no trust issues.

Let me give you this example, do you think your husband's friends will tell you if he got drunk and had a nice fling with a girl at a bar ? I highly doubt that ;)

Your friends will also not tell your husband if you did, unless they actually want to ruin your relationship for personal gain.

Other peoples business is their business, it has nothing to do with me.

On that subject, my brother in-law is going to get some nooky on the Rally.... I hate he's wife and not even that will make me tell her or my wife (He's sister) :D
 
Pitbull said:
Maybe go visit my HIV/Aids thread. I will never bonk anyone except my wife. Even if I do tease alot some times.
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Of course, it's your friends, not you.

We have no trust issues.

Let me give you this example, do you think your husband's friends will tell you if he got drunk and had a nice fling with a girl at a bar ? I highly doubt that ;)

Your friends will also not tell your husband if you did, unless they actually want to ruin your relationship for personal gain.

Other peoples business is their business, it has nothing to do with me.
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Excuse me, "a nice fling"?

On that subject, my brother in-law is going to get some nooky on the Rally.... I hate he's wife and not even that will make me tell her or my wife (He's sister) :D
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Your revelling in dishonesty, deception and betrayal makes my stomach turn.

You sound like an absolute pig of a man, and I am glad I have never had the misfortune of meeting you.
 
Debbie2 said:
Of course, it's your friends, not you.



Excuse me, "a nice fling"?



Your revelling in dishonesty, deception and betrayal makes my stomach turn.

You sound like an absolute pig of a man, and I am glad I have never had the misfortune of meeting you.
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O shyt, was wanting to say Flirt, not fling :eek: ..... Now I know why your so upset :o


:eek: :o :p

I'll give you a nice smooth on the cheek at the next Conference.
I'm just a man like everyone out there. I will bet a million bucks 99% of all men feel the same I do. That is the reason Killadoob started this thread. He knew he went against the manly code ;)

But No worries, I love you too Debbie ;)
 
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Pitbull said:
:eek: :o :p

I'll give you a nice smooth on the cheek at the next Conference.
I'm just a man like everyone out there. I will bet a million bucks 99% of all men feel the same I do. That is the reason Killadoob started this thread. He knew he went against the manly code ;)

But No worries, I love you too Debbie ;)
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I'll take that bet. :rolleyes:

Just reading through this thread, there're plenty of men in here that have evolved beyond neanderthal.
 
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