Question / Fat related

You have your opinions/thoughts/bits of advice - and so do I.
What I speak from seems to work for me...

Dude, bottom line from my perspective is it has nothing to do with you. If she has a problem that appears to be causing her health issues or she has bloated to the point of not being recognisable any longer, then by all means say something. But you have no place imho if she's just let herself go a little. She will know full well that she has. It's not like she'll be looking in the mirror every day thinking how much better she feels with these extra few kilos.

I've seen friends let themselves go. If she's unhappy or it's causing problems then by all means say something. But to say something because you feel she should be a few kilos lighter is tactless, no matter how it's done...
 
You have your opinions/thoughts/bits of advice - and so do I.
What I speak from seems to work for me...

Tell her she is fat and she needs to do something about it. She is just angry cause everybody else has been lying and telling her:

NPOOOOOOO we can hardly see it.
 
Im sorry but DJ is throwing stones in his very large glass house... Cant expect me not to say something back :)

And how in the absolute fsck can you even possibly know what I look like? You're acting like a complete moron and you will come off second best in a battle of insults and wits. I've so far ignored them but now you're just starting to piss on my battery with your immature, condescending tripe. If you're going to insult someone, at least try to make it somewhat intelligent...
 
Ive got a question. Being a true friend means you honest with them? And do things that they might not like, when its in their best interest

makes me think of the one time I went out with some mates. I was so fckni hammered and no a single one of them stopped me from driving home (just so happened that I wasnt with the lady that night, otherwise she would have drove)

needless to say, in the morning I couldnt help but think who my true friends were!

I might have been pissed off at the time, but after a bit I would have appreciated them for saying/doing something about it

tough love ftw
 
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And how in the absolute fsck can you even possibly know what I look like? You're acting like a complete moron and you will come off second best in a battle of insults and wits. I've so far ignored them but now you're just starting to piss on my battery with your immature, condescending tripe. If you're going to insult someone, at least try to make it somewhat intelligent...

DJ... stop getting so agro at everyone and relax man. Seriously! Chill.
 
And how in the absolute fsck can you even possibly know what I look like? You're acting like a complete moron and you will come off second best in a battle of insults and wits. I've so far ignored them but now you're just starting to piss on my battery with your immature, condescending tripe. If you're going to insult someone, at least try to make it somewhat intelligent...

LOL :D

sheesh dude... back to my previous post, you taking this waaaaaay to srsly

we just having a discussion here
 
And how in the absolute fsck can you even possibly know what I look like? You're acting like a complete moron and you will come off second best in a battle of insults and wits. I've so far ignored them but now you're just starting to piss on my battery with your immature, condescending tripe. If you're going to insult someone, at least try to make it somewhat intelligent...

calm the fsck down
 
DJ... stop getting so agro at everyone and relax man. Seriously! Chill.

gdiza, stop dictating how I should act. I've always been a little agro with utter plonkers. Like those who get pissed off with their mates for letting them drive home drunk. As if it's their responsibility and/or fault...:rolleyes:
 
gdiza, stop dictating how I should act. I've always been a little agro with utter plonkers. Like those who get pissed off with their mates for letting them drive home drunk. As if it's their responsibility and/or fault...:rolleyes:

twist twist twist

no one said it wasnt my own fault... I was talking about friends looking out for one another

your blind anger/rage is effecting your judgement bro :D
 
gdiza, stop dictating how I should act. I've always been a little agro with utter plonkers. Like those who get pissed off with their mates for letting them drive home drunk. As if it's their responsibility and/or fault...:rolleyes:

Friends dont let friends drive home drunk.
 
twist twist twist

no one said it wasnt my own fault... I was talking about friends looking out for one another

your blind anger/rage is effecting your judgement bro :D

Take responsibility for your own actions...

Bro...
 
Friends dont let friends drive home drunk.

Cute saying. Pity reality doesn't live up to this. The real world's a bitch when you grow up and have to take responsibility for your own stupidity...
 
Shame, she'll feel even more insecure now, and eat more to make the feeling go away.
 
Lol, I had the opposite happen to me once. Complimented a chick that obviously put some effort in and lost a lot of weight. She went off the handle at me but apologised a bit later.
 
Anyways, this thread is about fat chicks and how not to treat them. Back to regular programming...
 
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