Relationship Advice?!?!?!?

Venus69 said:
I am a complete mess at the moment, a few weeks back my fiancé informed me that he doesn't love me anymore. Since then my life has been a roller coaster of emotions, one moment he loves me, next day he's not sure. He then tells me he wants us to work on things, I must just give him some time. What should I do? How do I fix the broken relationship?
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I've been like that. Only because I'm not 100% normal when it comes to emotions, relationships and connecting. If he's anything like me then he just needs time away and will regret his decision later. Maybe time to figure himself out more than anything.
 
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Venus69 said:
I am a complete mess at the moment, a few weeks back my fiancé informed me that he doesn't love me anymore. Since then my life has been a roller coaster of emotions, one moment he loves me, next day he's not sure. He then tells me he wants us to work on things, I must just give him some time. What should I do? How do I fix the broken relationship?
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Are you a 46 year old woman?
If no, dump him, proceed with rebound.
 
Picard said:
Nope, it's actually a blue blood English one.

Even though my family has been Afrikaans for the last 5 generations.
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Heh, you just remind me a lot of a teacher from my old high school who also happened to be balding. He was a pretty cool guy.
 
Zewp said:
Heh, you just remind me a lot of a teacher from my old high school who also happened to be balding. He was a pretty cool guy.
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As am I, unfortunately I have an eccentricity that takes away from that coolness and leaves everyone with a whole lot of confusion.
 
That's why you remind me of him. He was also slightly eccentric and I don't think most people 'got' him, but I wouldn't say it necessarily detracted from his personality. Or yours, for that matter. :p
 
Please allow me to hijack this thread :)

So I have dated my current girlfriend for almost 4 months now, and I have a simple question:
- Is it appropriate or not appropriate for my girlfriend to post a picture of her guy friend on instagram? The guy friend happens to be her ex-boyfriend by the way. But they dated for 2 weeks about 2 years ago. The picture that she posted is of her having a video conversation via IMO (Skype like video calling app) and she took a picture, or a screenshot, of her and her guy friend. The guy friend's face happens to occupy like 90% of the photo, while my girlfriend's face occupies 10% of the photo or screenshot on the top left hand corner. The reason she posted the picture, and video called her guy friend, is because it was his birthday. What made me even mre unsettled is that she has never posted a picture of any of her other guy or lady friends on Instagram. Ever!

I told her the picture makes me extremely uncomfortable, and we had a huge fight about it. I then decided to not follow her on Instagram anymore (she has a private account) since she refused to delete the picture. I unfollowed her so she can be free to do whatever she wants without risking upsetting me. But I was extremely hurt and felt like she disrespected me. She posted 2 pictures of me on her Instagram, reffering me as "KindBae". The guyfriend knows that I am her boyfriend.

I am an introvert, and she is extremely extroverted and very outgoind.

Am I being unreasonable in being uncomfortable and upset about what she has done? Is it normal for girlfriends to post pictures of their ex boyfriends or guyfriends with "heart" symbols all over the place?
 
She's bonking him or wishes she was still. Leave her.

Wait.... Is she hot? we can arrange a set up and try get into her pants to see how faithful she is. Your call...
 
Sly21C said:
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Welcome to 2016 where this is perfectly acceptable (apparently)
i agree with you, but get ready to be speeched about being more self assured, giving her her space, be an alpha male and who knows what other jazz.
Again, this is why i am single. I will not stand for s1ht like this.
 
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