Relationship help thread 3.0... (AAAAAAAAAND ITS GONE!)

wazup said:
You clearly don't have any friends, otherwise you wouldn't have come to a public forum, asking STRANGERS for advice on your love life.
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Probably doesn't have any girlfriend or ex either. This is all a figment of his imagination. :p
 
Two girls want him now? I'm beginning to think they both only exist in random hero's head.
 
Deadmanza said:
Listen up guy, I don't know if you read the whole thread, but this guy is an "Alpha"!

I wouldn't be surprised if they are lining up at his door!
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OP has so much swag, he's even got dem bitches lined up in an orderly fashion to **** him.
 
wazup said:
I am going to side with registerforfree on this one.

Random Hero, you are one sick little f**k.

You clearly don't have any friends, otherwise you wouldn't have come to a public forum, asking STRANGERS for advice on your love life. So pathetic that you can't even think for yourself. So be it. But after Thursday night, when you and the girl talked things out, and you bonked her good, and there was no further need for any advice, you just HAD to come here anyway and brag about it.

I just wish I knew who this girl is and how I could contact her, I would have loved to show her this thread. If she sees this, she will drop you like a hot potato. How do you think she will feel if she learns how you shared very intimate details about her to strangers on the internet?

And you know what, it IS about your ego in terms of the ex girlfriend. If you don't want to be friends with the ex anymore, why do you still have contact with her? Clearly it is upsetting the new girl, so you have to choose. How would you feel if one of the new girl's ex boyfriends calls her all the time?

A relationship is not about YOU as individual anymore, it is about sacrifice, compromise and respect, so even if your ego gets stroked, you have to cool things down with the ex because it is upsetting the new girl. And if you can't see the truth in that, then you are messing the new girl around, and that is not how you go through life. You treat people with respect.

Either way, you obviously have a huge need to feel validated. You are immature, so please f**k off, go bang your new chick and stop discussing your personal s**t here because nobody cares!
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Geez man...

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wazup said:
I am going to side with registerforfree on this one.

Random Hero, you are one sick little f**k.

You clearly don't have any friends, otherwise you wouldn't have come to a public forum, asking STRANGERS for advice on your love life. So pathetic that you can't even think for yourself. So be it. But after Thursday night, when you and the girl talked things out, and you bonked her good, and there was no further need for any advice, you just HAD to come here anyway and brag about it.

I just wish I knew who this girl is and how I could contact her, I would have loved to show her this thread. If she sees this, she will drop you like a hot potato. How do you think she will feel if she learns how you shared very intimate details about her to strangers on the internet?

And you know what, it IS about your ego in terms of the ex girlfriend. If you don't want to be friends with the ex anymore, why do you still have contact with her? Clearly it is upsetting the new girl, so you have to choose. How would you feel if one of the new girl's ex boyfriends calls her all the time?

A relationship is not about YOU as individual anymore, it is about sacrifice, compromise and respect, so even if your ego gets stroked, you have to cool things down with the ex because it is upsetting the new girl. And if you can't see the truth in that, then you are messing the new girl around, and that is not how you go through life. You treat people with respect.

Either way, you obviously have a huge need to feel validated. You are immature, so please f**k off, go bang your new chick and stop discussing your personal s**t here because nobody cares!
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Yeah people helped actually and gave good advice. me and the new girl are doing good. and its not about my ego being stroked. this ex of mine, I cant just let go of.. i ignore her texts. but there is history man. last night this ex came and texted me again telling me about this dream she had of me and wanted to know how i am.. The new girl saw this last night and made me text her back to tell her to back off because i am seeing someone new... So I think she feels insecure but I told her that the ex does not matter and I would never get back with her...

I have many friends man geez... why the animosity dude? well hopefully she will never find this thread.. neither her or the ex.
 
Deadmanza said:
Listen up guy, I don't know if you read the whole thread, but this guy is an "Alpha"!

I wouldn't be surprised if they are lining up at his door!
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Bar0n said:
OP has so much swag, he's even got dem bitches lined up in an orderly fashion to **** him.
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You know i was using the word alpha and being all proud and stuff because dude girls are really easy to get its not so tough to get with a girl. thing is to find the right one. and i want the right one because i am cooling down now.. in the sense that the parties and the crazy late nights are coming to a halt. want to settle.
 
Random Hero said:
Yeah people helped actually and gave good advice. me and the new girl are doing good. and its not about my ego being stroked. this ex of mine, I cant just let go of.. i ignore her texts. but there is history man. last night this ex came and texted me again telling me about this dream she had of me and wanted to know how i am.. The new girl saw this last night and made me text her back to tell her to back off because i am seeing someone new... So I think she feels insecure but I told her that the ex does not matter and I would never get back with her...

I have many friends man geez... why the animosity dude? well hopefully she will never find this thread.. neither her or the ex.
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Why are you lying to yourself and to your new gf?

If she does not matter delete her messages and block her number.
 
OrbitalDawn said:
Why are you lying to yourself and to your new gf?

If she does not matter delete her messages and block her number.
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Because I cant... she is seeing someone. but we have history. I just ignore her. I wouldn't Cheat or keep tabs on my ex. i never contact her. What if something happened and she called. like if this guy hits her or if she is in trouble... I cant be that cold.
 
Random Hero said:
Because I cant... she is seeing someone. but we have history. I just ignore her. I wouldn't Cheat or keep tabs on my ex. i never contact her. What if something happened and she called. like if this guy hits her or if she is in trouble... I cant be that cold.
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You are going to be cold and alone if you continue this course...
 
Random Hero said:
Because I cant... she is seeing someone. but we have history. I just ignore her. I wouldn't Cheat or keep tabs on my ex. i never contact her. What if something happened and she called. like if this guy hits her or if she is in trouble... I cant be that cold.
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Go away, you are wasting our time and yours. Don't come asking for advice when you clearly don't want it.
 
Random Hero said:
Because I cant... she is seeing someone. but we have history. I just ignore her. I wouldn't Cheat or keep tabs on my ex. i never contact her. What if something happened and she called. like if this guy hits her or if she is in trouble... I cant be that cold.
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you both made that decision when you decided to split. you are not the guy she runs to any more, you are not her bf.

it bothers your new girl so obviously her feelings mean nothing to you, so it can't be true love :p
 
Random Hero said:
Because I cant... she is seeing someone. but we have history. I just ignore her. I wouldn't Cheat or keep tabs on my ex. i never contact her. What if something happened and she called. like if this guy hits her or if she is in trouble... I cant be that cold.
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She has other people to turn to. She's no longer part of your life.

Grow up.

Oh, and while you're at it, grow up.

And when you're done with that, grow up.

You're whining like a child. I'm actually having an incredibly hard time believing that you're 25. There is no way a normal, well-adjusted, mentally sound 25 year old would be acting the way you are.
 
registerforfree said:
You're whining like a child. I'm actually having an incredibly hard time believing that you're 25. There is no way a normal, well-adjusted, mentally sound 25 year old would be acting the way you are.
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Either a troll or a 14 year old. Both options come with a vivid imagination and loads of imaginary girls.
 
Random Hero said:
Because I cant... she is seeing someone. but we have history. I just ignore her. I wouldn't Cheat or keep tabs on my ex. i never contact her. What if something happened and she called. like if this guy hits her or if she is in trouble... I cant be that cold.
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Oh well. Enjoy sabotaging all your future relationships then.
 
I suggest the rest of you don't indulge this guy further. If he's for real (which I think he is, seeing as I've seen him around on other forums and I think I have him on Steam too), then leave him to **** up his new relationship on his own. It's not like he's going to listen to what we say anyways.
 
registerforfree said:
I suggest the rest of you don't indulge this guy further. If he's for real (which I think he is, seeing as I've seen him around on other forums and I think I have him on Steam too), then leave him to **** up his new relationship on his own. It's not like he's going to listen to what we say anyways.
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Yeah, I think you are right. He says he "just ignores the ex" but then also says he spoke 45min with her on the phone the other night. He says he can never be friends with her, but worries what could happen to her. As you say, the ex is no longer his problem. The idea I tried to bring home, is that he needs to make a decision, because all this stuff is upsetting his new GF. It doesn't matter what the circumstances are with the ex, he is giving it higher priority than the relationship with the new girl, which is wrong.

But he is not going to listen. He is an immature child looking for attention.

If his new girl gave priority to an ex-boyfriend, he will probably come on here and start a thread about it, asking for advice again.
 
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