Relationship help thread 3.0... (AAAAAAAAAND ITS GONE!)

Nick333 said:
Hitting some of that primo poon you must have lined up as every alpha does.
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Thing about that is.. over the last two weeks, told 1 I got the new girl.. and the other one was not happy with seeing me with the new girl one night... there is another one, but she is in my home town...

The Cray girl I was dating now also did not like other females... on Vday she chased another one away.

...Is it possible to upload Whatsapp VNs? I want you to hear this one she sent to this girl.
 
Pitbull said:
Why?

You got laid. Now move on. Shyte happens.
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Yeah... but Saturday is the last time it happened. and I am going to be busy with studies and work and a research proposal until 29 May now... The plan was to stick with this one. damn.

Never date crazy... they make you go Beta...
 
Ninja'd said:
Please do because this thread is starting to smell more than that body in my basement.
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How do I upload it?

Well let me just explain what happens:

On Vday, this girl sends me a Msg saying: "Hey, Happy Valentines day. lovies you.<3"

New girl and I wake up... se looks at my phone, reads the msg. get pissed. sends her a VN
saying: "Haai Biiitch! Sal jy asseblief my ou uitlos, dankie!"

I laughed my ass off.
 
In all seriousness, you need to grow up though. Don't take it as an attack, take it as advice. You're incredibly naive and childish in your way of thinking and reasoning. I'm not surprised this one didn't work out, considering your approach to relationships and dating as a whole.

While you're at it, drop this alpha male nonsense and stop viewing dating as some kind of competition. You're 25. That crap might have flown when you were 18, but definitely not now. Most people you're going to meet now are going to want something more serious, with someone who is emotionally mature. Which is something you are clearly not. You don't have to change your entire personality or stop joking around, but at some point you're going to have to wake up and realise you're no longer in high school.
 
registerforfree said:
In all seriousness, you need to grow up though. Don't take it as an attack, take it as advice. You're incredibly naive and childish in your way of thinking and reasoning. I'm not surprised this one didn't work out, considering your approach to relationships and dating as a whole.

While you're at it, drop this alpha male nonsense and stop viewing dating as some kind of competition. You're 25. That crap might have flown when you were 18, but definitely not now. Most people you're going to meet now are going to want something more serious, with someone who is emotionally mature. Which is something you are clearly not. You don't have to change your entire personality or stop joking around, but at some point you're going to have to wake up and realise you're no longer in high school.
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Well I respect your opinion... so thank you for that. I was just being playful and joking around. The Alpha shiiit was just me being silly.
I actually want something serious. I want a girlfriend with with the view of a long future. I'm done with the high school view of dating.

truth is this girl I was with now was really strange. she was a bit crazy. I mean the texting ad snooping around on my phone was not on... She wants to be in control and wants me to be the bitch that does everything for her and that wont fly with me.

I thought i could establish a dominant man position and "put her in her place". and when I say that I mean, let her understand that we are both partners and team mates and no person is more important then the other. We went on a date once (the picnic idea) and she forgot her lighter at home. and she wanted me to go to the car park which was a long walk away and use the car lighter to light up a cigarette for her, or ask random people for a lighter. I said "no, lets enjoy the date and you can smoke when we get home"... She then flipped out and become very nasty then the day ended up in animosity... Friday night was ***.. it started awesome, we saw each other at 14:00 and had an awesome time until about 21:00 when she got drunk and very insulting and stuff happened.

So I know You may think im a douchebag, but this girl had some issues as I had mentioned previously... my naivety was that I was very attracted to this girl and because we had a lot in common and had such good fun together, i thought that I could somehow "tame" her crazyness.. but in the end.. this is probably better.


I just feel bad now because in the last month and a bit some links with other girls have gone away due to me thinking I would stay with this girl(big mistake)...

So now i feel a bit lonely and I am not having sex and not meeting people... so yeah... that's my sob for the day.
 
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