killadoob
Honorary Master
No bud you are not helping yourself and the post was made to highlight it.
You are talking yourself into a boner problem, that post was made to shock you. Soultax it is holiday bro and i am not high on anything but life.
You are listening to people telling you that farting in front her will help or alcohol. You and only you can fix this issue, you know you are capable of boning a chick, so why are you doubting yourself? Stop doubting yourself, stop telling yourself you are going to suffer it again. Instead replace it is with thoughts that will help. You said if she was ugly you could bang her no worries so your performance anxiety is purely because you feel you need to perform and you are going into the situation mentally unprepared. You need to get the mental side of it sorted, look in mirror and say you know what i am going to show her what i can do. The minute you start doubting yourself look at her, does she look into it? Work from there
you are capable of banging her but you are mentally fking yourself before the encounter. Confidence and thinking you are a beast in bed instead of OMG what if i can't get it up again will go a far way to fixing the issue.
If you are going to talk yourself into this situation before it happens you have no way to escape it when the situation happens. You have already told yourself there is a good chance you will go floppy. You could go to the extremes and ask her to let you bone doggie style and just cum. Bam one hurdle done, the chick is willing to help you, secondly there is no performance needed you simply stick it in go as hard and long as possible before you blow. Right then and there your brain will register she wants you and she is willing to help. then it is up to you to stop thinking you are going to fail. Start thinking you will give her a great night of sex before hand. Don't just say it, believe it.
There is only one option for you, find a way to get it done and get her to help you get it done. You might find doggie is her favourite position, do you even know what she likes? Basically bro i shocked you to get your attention. You are over thinking it and talking yourself into a floppy dick. Talk yourself into a hard dick. It isn't easy but when 5th 6th 7th time it happens what then? Get your mind focused and prepared for the situation. Put the past behind you, she is with you after 4 failed attempts obviously she wants you so use that to make your mind register that wait a second this chick wants me why i am scared of performing, i have yet to perform so even if my performance is not good she will still want me and then you will gain confidence. Giving up when it goes floppy is destroying any chance you have of fixing the situation. Mental preparation is like studying but you have to believe it. Relax dude you got hot a blonde wanting to have sex with you, why are you so stressed out? 5th time and she comes for more, that means there is more than you banging her to the relationship. So get your mental state right before hand and when those i can't perform thoughts enter, swop them out with i am gonna do this chick and do her well.
When you start thinking a blow job won't do the trick you are mentally done, stop putting her feelings on the line and start thinking how do i make her feel good? Do i want to make her feel like i am into her? No i want her to know i am into her, you need to believe you can do it because you can and you need to stop thinking about her. think about yourself, concentrate on doing your thing. Stop worrying there is more to sex then penetration, relaxing blow job, giving her a good chomp, fingering etc. It will bring you closer to being comfortable. Don't stop at omg my boner won't stay up. I'm so sorry.
You are talking yourself into a boner problem, that post was made to shock you. Soultax it is holiday bro and i am not high on anything but life.
You are listening to people telling you that farting in front her will help or alcohol. You and only you can fix this issue, you know you are capable of boning a chick, so why are you doubting yourself? Stop doubting yourself, stop telling yourself you are going to suffer it again. Instead replace it is with thoughts that will help. You said if she was ugly you could bang her no worries so your performance anxiety is purely because you feel you need to perform and you are going into the situation mentally unprepared. You need to get the mental side of it sorted, look in mirror and say you know what i am going to show her what i can do. The minute you start doubting yourself look at her, does she look into it? Work from there
you are capable of banging her but you are mentally fking yourself before the encounter. Confidence and thinking you are a beast in bed instead of OMG what if i can't get it up again will go a far way to fixing the issue.
If you are going to talk yourself into this situation before it happens you have no way to escape it when the situation happens. You have already told yourself there is a good chance you will go floppy. You could go to the extremes and ask her to let you bone doggie style and just cum. Bam one hurdle done, the chick is willing to help you, secondly there is no performance needed you simply stick it in go as hard and long as possible before you blow. Right then and there your brain will register she wants you and she is willing to help. then it is up to you to stop thinking you are going to fail. Start thinking you will give her a great night of sex before hand. Don't just say it, believe it.
There is only one option for you, find a way to get it done and get her to help you get it done. You might find doggie is her favourite position, do you even know what she likes? Basically bro i shocked you to get your attention. You are over thinking it and talking yourself into a floppy dick. Talk yourself into a hard dick. It isn't easy but when 5th 6th 7th time it happens what then? Get your mind focused and prepared for the situation. Put the past behind you, she is with you after 4 failed attempts obviously she wants you so use that to make your mind register that wait a second this chick wants me why i am scared of performing, i have yet to perform so even if my performance is not good she will still want me and then you will gain confidence. Giving up when it goes floppy is destroying any chance you have of fixing the situation. Mental preparation is like studying but you have to believe it. Relax dude you got hot a blonde wanting to have sex with you, why are you so stressed out? 5th time and she comes for more, that means there is more than you banging her to the relationship. So get your mental state right before hand and when those i can't perform thoughts enter, swop them out with i am gonna do this chick and do her well.
When you start thinking a blow job won't do the trick you are mentally done, stop putting her feelings on the line and start thinking how do i make her feel good? Do i want to make her feel like i am into her? No i want her to know i am into her, you need to believe you can do it because you can and you need to stop thinking about her. think about yourself, concentrate on doing your thing. Stop worrying there is more to sex then penetration, relaxing blow job, giving her a good chomp, fingering etc. It will bring you closer to being comfortable. Don't stop at omg my boner won't stay up. I'm so sorry.
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Just by doing that you'll feel better about the whole thing and concentrate on the comfort thing rather. If she wants to turn things sexual, do everything BUT penis-play. MANY ways to have fun without that. And if you have fun, you feel better and would want to join in the fun in a later stage.
