She cheated

news24 said:
Hi,

Guys I know that I'm at the bottom of the food chain for most members here, I'd appreciate it if you could reserve the insults later.

Anyways, my 12year old brother apparently caught my girlfriend kissing some dude. She denies it , I feel betrayed, what can I do ? My brother never lies, and has nothing to gain by telling me that. I trusted her. I am so torn apart, we were supposed to get married this December and move to Huston together.
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Pfft... you're crying over a kiss?
 
@OP - Maybe it was just a friendly kiss and your 12 year old bro misunderstood it?
 
news24 said:
She was pregnant but had a miscarriage after 8 weeks. Damn, this is difficult I don't know what I'm gonna do. I can't stay with someone I don't trust. Besides she'll have to spend the whole day at home while I work here in Huston. :(
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Have you established whether it was a KISS or a 12yr olds version of a kiss yet? Cos there is a BIG difference! It could also be worth getting your brother to say it infront of her, but at the same time you dont want to bring him into adult issues, so if you do it, do it calmly and make sure HE is not made to feel uncomfortable...

Im really sorry to hear this boet. I've been there and it's not nice! Just remember... Talking solves problems! Accusations and screaming doesnt!
 
news24 said:
She was pregnant but had a miscarriage after 8 weeks. Damn, this is difficult I don't know what I'm gonna do. I can't stay with someone I don't trust. Besides she'll have to spend the whole day at home while I work here in Huston. :(
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Do you still spend alot of time with her ,as when your'll used to first date? Perhaps if not ,that could be the reason into why she cheated.
I guess you will have to talk to her, and maybe you guys can work on it. However in my opinion, I would hold plans for marriage atleast another year.
Rather be sure, than wait a year into marriage and it happens again.
If I were in your shoes, and this was the first time, I'd try to work things out, if the second, I'd walk, not worthed.
 
/goes back to my pet sheep she dont cheat cos none of me mates wants to hump a sheep.
 
:wtf: and then you get the newbies who have no clue who news24 is and engage in his antics feeling sorry for him.

i'm over this trailer trash, jerry springer show already.
 
Celine said:
:wtf: and then you get the newbies who have no clue who news24 is and engage in his antics feeling sorry for him.

i'm over this trailer trash, jerry springer show already.
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Didn't stop you from reading the thread :p
 
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