So we broke up

AcidRaZor said:
He has a job. Which means he's not in school. Which means he doesn't need to go to a dance. She was the one that couldn't muster up an alternative date and decided to hold out breaking up with him for a few more weeks or whatever to use him for this opportunity.

Seeing as though he lost weight and buffed up, I reckon he should pork one of her friends.
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Thanks for that man. Sums up exactly how I feel.

AcidRaZor said:
Working on a public holiday sucks either way
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You have that right, but at least it is double pay:D
 
Linoman said:
You have that right, exactly how I feel.

What makes it worse is that, when I met her she was going through a bad time. Helped her a lot to get through it. I mean I stood by her when no one else would.

Now that she is moving forward, she doesn't need me anymore. My god I feel used.
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yeah man, its the same concept as a rebound. you made her feel better about herself and helped her out etc, she thought that she's attracted to you because you made her feel a lot better etc but then when things started getting better for her she realised that it wasnt you. then she kept you in her pocket because she needed at date for her matric farewell and dropped you in the pond when she didnt need you anymore.
girls = evil.
i had a girlfriend in matric who dumped me right after her farewell (at the afterparty) because she "needed to sort her life out" so i know the feeling dude. i got revenge though and pulled her sister and her cousin that night :D:D

anyway dude, there's no point in dwelling on this. the world closed one door and opened a million. the fact that she used you like this means that she shouldnt even be worth a mourning period. go have a good time with your friends, stop thinking about her and go work some magic on new targets.

and as someone else has already mentioned - the plus is that you're looking better after she left you than you did when you started dating her... so it doesnt take a rocket scientist to know that you can do even better now ;)
 
Linoman -

Looks like you were nothing more than a doormat -

Next time - don't help a girl through her problems - let her sort themselves out - then be with you.....

Otherwise the moment they don't have the problem no more - you are of no use -


Good luck man - I know it's tough - you'll find someone better
 
Linoman said:
You have that right, exactly how I feel.

What makes it worse is that, when I met her she was going through a bad time. Helped her a lot to get through it. I mean I stood by her when no one else would.

Now that she is moving forward, she doesn't need me anymore. My god I feel used.
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Bad feeling aint it.. lol - It doesnt really get better quickly. My advise would include booze + other women :cool:

;)
 
Linoman said:
You have that right, exactly how I feel.

What makes it worse is that, when I met her she was going through a bad time. Helped her a lot to get through it. I mean I stood by her when no one else would.

Now that she is moving forward, she doesn't need me anymore. My god I feel used.
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Sorry to hear about the break-up, but keep in shape and get another girl.

Go out and enjoy yourself, there are plenty of hot, single, nice woman around.

Good luck!
 
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Well, I know it does not seem like it now, but I think she did you a big favor. You seem like a good guy (not a lot of those around anymore), so now you can find the right girl. Be glad she showed her true colors now, and not once you were in a more permanent relationship (engaged or married). Lots of guys only find out that the woman of their dreams is a waste of skin after they tie the knot. Remember failure only serves to enhance the euphoria off success.
 
DDV TECH said:
Well, I know it does not seem like it now, but I think she did you a big favor. You seem like a good guy (not a lot of those around anymore), so now you can find the right girl. Be glad she showed her true colors now, and not once you were in a more permanent relationship (engaged or married). Lots of guys only find out that the woman of their dreams is a waste of skin after they tie the knot. Remember failure only serves to enhance the euphoria off success.
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+1
 
Thanks to all the responses everyone. I feel a bit better now. Almost finished at work. Will post a proper thank you to everyone later.
 
I just want to say thank you to all you guys/gals who replied. It really means a lot, you are all a lot of awesome people.

I shall move on, thanks again for all the kind words/standing up for me and of cause the advice.

Must admit being home now I do feel better
 
My gf leaves for Germany in like 5 days, then I'm single again (because we've both agreed it wont work - long distance)

Linoman... drinks? ;)

Let's go pick up biatches and play the field ;)
 
DDV TECH said:
Well, I know it does not seem like it now, but I think she did you a big favor. You seem like a good guy (not a lot of those around anymore), so now you can find the right girl. Be glad she showed her true colors now, and not once you were in a more permanent relationship (engaged or married). Lots of guys only find out that the woman of their dreams is a waste of skin after they tie the knot. Remember failure only serves to enhance the euphoria off success.
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+10000000000000000
 
lol, yeah, lets get into my dutchmobil and chat up some nice second hand ladies on koeberg road :D lol , NOT :p at least the my adsl meeting is next week friday so we can sort out things, you know, whos driving and where we pick them up etc... :D

But thats really sad for you man, hope u are coping. Its not that great if you break up with soneone...
 
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