So we broke up

BTech said:
Real men don't whine over chiks..there's plenty dude..
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yes, there are plenty, but they are evil as hell and have a way to bring even the most emotionally shut off guy to his knees.


BTech said:
people who don't git sum is 'cos they are too picky..ever considered that something is better than nothing e.g BBW
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something is never better than nothing if that something isn't what you want.
never settle for second best, mediocrity is lame.
 
lmao.. get trampled is not an option you should jump to take ;)
 
BTech said:
Real men don't whine over chiks..there's plenty dude..people who don't git sum is 'cos they are too picky..ever considered that something is better than nothing e.g BBW
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Advice, never ever work for suicide hotline:p
 
Day 3:

Well today I am feeling a bit better (ok have the flu and stuck in bed) but you all know what I mean.

I have had no contact with her since, the breakup on Wednesday. Although from today she will be on holiday. I wonder if she will bother to contact me.
 
Linoman said:
Day 3:

Well today I am feeling a bit better (ok have the flu and stuck in bed) but you all know what I mean.

I have had no contact with her since, the breakup on Wednesday. Although from today she will be on holiday. I wonder if she will bother to contact me.
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Dude, stay away from her and eradicate all feelings/desires of making contact with her. The sooner you move on from her, the better. If you don't, you're just gonna make yourself sicker than you already are. Mkay? :)
 
Linoman said:
Day 3:

Well today I am feeling a bit better (ok have the flu and stuck in bed) but you all know what I mean.

I have had no contact with her since, the breakup on Wednesday. Although from today she will be on holiday. I wonder if she will bother to contact me.
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Quit whingeing and go do something interesting.
Remove her details from your phone now.
 
mercurial said:
Dude, stay away from her and eradicate all feelings/desires of making contact with her. The sooner you move on from her, the better. If you don't, you're just gonna make yourself sicker than you already are. Mkay? :)
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You have a good point there. If she contacts me I shall just ignore her.

alf101 said:
Quit whingeing go do something interesting.
Remove her details from from phone now.
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I would go do something interesting but I dunno being stuck in bed. Sucks, but yes I should delete her number.

Damn Lino, pull yourself back together.
 
Having been in a relationship for over a year which ended very abruptly via SMS out of nowhere which until this day remains unexplained to me...a relationship I worked for and was my primary motive for moving to JHB from Durbs when all was well....

all I can say is forget about the whole thing man. :)

No doubt you are going to find another girl like I did :) one who is really special and cares for you like no other woman or person ever did. Sure you will never forget the "break-up" and what could have been. You will probably then realise that what could have been was always a waste of your time in any case.

To add to the whole thing a funny story my father told me was that a girl who had left him in his younger days tried to contact him like 30 years later. She ended up getting a horrible husband in a very neglected family setting and wishes that she had never broken up with my father. Too bad lol and faaar too late.
 
yeah man, delete. get rid of her number.
as soon as you're healthy - go do some new things, meet new people... even if you just go out and have a beer with your friends every day. keep yourself busy with other things and other people... it'll keep her out of your mind and help you move on.
 
Dude Sorry to hear. Just take it day for day for now.
 
So I didn't delete her from MXIT. However I wish I did. Here is what happened this afternoon.

1) She SMS"s me saying she has heard nothing from me since Wednesday. What she expected I do not know.

2) I go onto MXIT and randomly I see she is online. We start chatting etc.

Good grief, all I can say is that wow, talking about it being all my fault. Shucks you would think she is an angel. All I can say, she ain't worth any of the heartache.

I mean seriously, good grief I never knew how someone could change like that. You would have thought I treated her like a jerk.

I love the fact how she says I run away from problems, when she is the one who broke things up. I guess everyone else was right when they said she was bad news.

Goes to show you, showing some people kindness they do not apprecate it or deserve it.

Time to move on with my life, I do not need someone like her in it.

PS she can't understand why I do not want to be friends:confused:, I ask you.

Thanks to everyone here, you all have been fantastic.
 
Well just to add, deleted all the sms's on my phone. Also removed her from mxit
 
Linoman said:
Well just to add, deleted all the sms's on my phone. Also removed her from mxit
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Cool, and now (your next major issue) you'll need to start thinking about her having a different boyfriend.

She'll probably have one within the next month.
 
alf101 said:
Cool, and now (your next major issue) you'll need to start thinking about her having a different boyfriend.

She'll probably have one within the next month.
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Na, but dude not helping:eek:
 
alf101 said:
Cool, and now (your next major issue) you'll need to start thinking about her having a different boyfriend.

She'll probably have one within the next month.
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I'll give her a week...tops, sorry man but it's true. :(
 
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