So we broke up

alf101 said:
Of, course I'm helping - u need to be prepared.
Once you're ok with her having another guy, you'll be fine.
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yes, i agree. you're pretty much over her once you're ok with that. and it will happen sooner or later, so just take all the **** in one go rather than spreading it out over weeks/months. its hard, i know, im dealing with the same thing, but it gets better ever day.

good luck man.

...and remember, there's always people on this forum with good advice if you need any help.
 
Call her in a month, shag her, in the meantime git sum, somewhere else, otherwise its billy-no-mates for you dude. Hey why not make her pregnant?
 
Well today day 4 I feel much better. Getting used to the entire idea of everything.

Anyway after I deleted her etc, she contacted me again. We ended up speaking for about 5 hours. She finally explained her reasons for everything.

So we are still broken up but at least I have some closure now.
 
Linoman said:
Well today day 4 I feel much better. Getting used to the entire idea of everything.

Anyway after I deleted her etc, she contacted me again. We ended up speaking for about 5 hours. She finally explained her reasons for everything.

So we are still broken up but at least I have some closure now.
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You're going to be changing your mind about things frequently over the next few weeks. Analysing everything over and over...

Do u have he ability to perve other chicks yet?
 
alf101 said:
You're going to be changing your mind about things frequently over the next few weeks. Analysing everything over and over...

Do u have he ability to perve other chicks yet?
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Not just yet, still waiting to recover a bit. Although back at work today:confused: as soon as my flu is gone.

Although there is someone else who I have in mind, but nothing serious only to have a bit of fun with.
 
Linoman said:
Well I can't believe it! I thought that my girl friend and I had sorted everything out.

I worked hard at gym, dieted etc for her matric dance. Which happened last night, everything was fine until we arrived back at her house.

To cut a long story short, the usual "it's not you it's me" and I need to sort out my own things.

So here I am at work today, feeling upset and down.

So there we have it, single again:eek:
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Have you made-up again?
 
So now it is a couple of days later. We of cause have not made up which I think is a good thing. Lets me move on,

however today I am missing her so much. Wonder why could also be that I am sick I guess
 
Linoman said:
So now it is a couple of days later. We of cause have not made up which I think is a good thing. Lets me move on,

however today I am missing her so much. Wonder why could also be that I am sick I guess
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Just remember the pain this chick caused you Linoman, the longing will soon fade, you still not better yet? **** man better go see a doctor, you better be ok by the 3rd…..:D
 
DDV TECH said:
Just remember the pain this chick caused you Linoman, the longing will soon fade, you still not better yet? **** man better go see a doctor, you better be ok by the 3rd…..:D
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Hey thanks DDV TECH

I shall remember that.

Yeah I am still sick, just been getting worse:confused:, going to the doctor tomorrow morning. Had enough of this
 
Linoman said:
So now it is a couple of days later. We of cause have not made up which I think is a good thing. Lets me move on,

however today I am missing her so much. Wonder why could also be that I am sick I guess
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U understanding my last post yet?
 
Well after talking to her this evening.

I have once again deleted her from

MXIT
All SMS's
Removed her number from my phone.
 
Hey Lino, even when you are in an existing relationship, it hurts sometimes. When you love someone, you open up your heart and the side-effect can be painful.
 
blunomore said:
Hey Lino, even when you are in an existing relationship, it hurts sometimes. When you love someone, you open up your heart and the side-effect can be painful.
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That is so true, but yes after talking to her again. I realised that everything is my fault, and when I try to talk reason. I am feeling sorry for myself. Then she just goes offline.

Not worth it, sent a nice SMS (don't like to end things on a bad note) to which she did not reply.

Thus now I have removed her
 
Linoman said:
That is so true, but yes after talking to her again. I realised that everything is my fault, and when I try to talk reason. I am feeling sorry for myself. Then she just goes offline.

Not worth it, sent a nice SMS (don't like to end things on a bad note) to which she did not reply.

Thus now I have removed her
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You know, some people - especially when they are younger - do not have the social and communication skills to say how they feel or to say 'the right thing', so sometimes they just keep quiet.

Maybe she does not know how to respond.
 
blunomore said:
You know, some people - especially when they are younger - do not have the social and communication skills to say how they feel or to say 'the right thing', so sometimes they just keep quiet.

Maybe she does not know how to respond.
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Don’t fall for that one, what she did was not nice, at any age…
 
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