@Wikus, get yer own thread.
@mbvdl, run a command called tracert (trace route), it will confirm if what the Telkom nice guy is saying is true.
Tracert basically returns the latencies at each routing point as your data heads out towards it's destination.
If your DSLAM is the cause of the problem, then traceroute will return massive (400ms and greater) latencies at the very first point.
But, I am willing to bet that this is not true, and that trace route will show a latency problem further upstream.
WinXP:
Start -> Run -> type in: cmd
Click Ok
In that black box, type in:
tracert
www.gamesunited.de
press enter
sit back and wait for it to show you where the congestion is..