Yeah but in the defense of immigrating SA people, 'we' are a hundred times stronger,
tougher, ambitious, and harder, than the pretty shallow ditsy one-dimensional pampered folk of the US and the EU, who don't have even a tiny percentage of the life-experience that most SA people have.
Us 'lighter colored' Africans may 'look' just like the white folk of the West, however we're
not them, and we're a lot tougher than them.
Something they (the West) don't quite 'get'.
RE
South Africans in Europe:
1) No-one cares where you are from and that you are from the Dark Continent.
Why should they care? Do you want someone to hold your hand?
2) In public offices, you are treated like you are unwanted, the same like other foreigners from Turkey / Iraq / Afganistan etc. You are basically no better than an unemployed smelly immigrant from East Europe or the Middle East.
So what?
3) Very difficult to impress anyone at work with your skills. Your qualifications and experience in SA are questioned/ignored since Europeans cannot believe that anything good can come out of Africa.
If you think work is about 'impressing someone with your skills' - then you need to employ someone to tell you how great you are, and go flip burgers rather
. Work is about doing the job. If you're lucky enough to have someone see that you're skilled, great, otherwise - shut up and enjoy the money.
4) You have to work *very hard* to prove yourself, and your reward after 1 year (apart from salary increase) is even MORE WORK.
And a LOT more money, and a lot more free time, and a lot more safety, security, and peace - something missing from SA. Besides, if you're
doing a job of work that you hate - whose fault is it? Everyone elses? Or yours. Go reinvest money, train at something YOU like to do,
and make a buck that way. Repeat after me "Flex-ibility"
5) In a horribly unfamiliar environment, help is scarce and you have to find out things for yourself. *No-one* will help you.
Wah, wah wah.. *baby crying sounds*
Try learning how to 'adapt' to your new environment, rather than demanding or expecting that your new surroundings should adjust to you.