suspicious behaviour or over reacting?

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I just wanted to be as objective as possible.

Sadly men who are insecure are also controlling and jealous.

That looks to be the case right now. Your husband is insecure about your relationship and probably worries that you are cheating on him or will cheat on him. He might feel inadequate.

That makes him want to be controlling of you, because he needs to know. Knowing whether you are cheating or not would reassure him. Or it would validate his self doubt, and internally he would say, "See? I was right, she doesnt love me."

How would you resolve it? I dont know. A lot of men are like him - insecure and controlling - and its difficult to get them to understand that. You might want to try counselling.

I really am no expert though, I just speak from experience of my own insecurity. So dont let your marriage depend on my advice.
 
Your husband's a psycho, a liar & a cheat. And he's trying to make you out to be all that as well, that's was abusers do.
What a dumb-a$$ you should be the one taking his phone and calling all the nasty women he's been with! But you're not a psycho are you?
 
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I feel sorry for the wives of some of the posters. God forbid your wife ever gets a call from a wrong number.

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Why would she have answered the call in front of him if she did recognize the number as being the guy she is having an affair with?
She could have rejected it and switched her phone off.
 
It is most probably someone phoning a wrong number. Relax and take a chill pill. The more you stress about stuffs like this the more you will push her away.
 
Drop that Zero and get on with the Hero :D. On a serious note, he is insecure, he can easily abuse you physically.
 
To the OP - please consider updating the original post to reflect you are the "she" in question - some people are clearly just not getting it. ;)
 
wtf, confusing pointless thread.... sort your issues out between yourselves.
 
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