I also love cooking and luckily for me, due to the hours my wife has to work, I get too cook almost every night.
Mostly during the week its something quick and easy, but I try and keep it balanced most of the time 1 meat with at least 2 veg and as little starch as possible. Basic weekly cooking is 1 night fish, 1 night pork, 1 night red meat and 2 nights chicken.
The weekend is when I have time to have some fun cooking and I tend to experiment a lot.
I also like cooking in the winter, I have 2 slow cookers, so before I leave for work in the morning veg goes into one and normally a nice stew or roast in the other.
Some recipies I like to do once in a while:
Ox Tail, very simple but delicious
I use the big round black kettle pots (potjie pot) and do this on an open fire. Basically need to be home all day to get it just right. I've done it on the stove before but then you need the flat base pot.
In my opinion: You can not make oxtail in anything other than a cast iron pot.
Start off with browning your oxtail in the pot with just olive oil, salt and pepper.
Once its browned nicely move the pot away from your fire to let it cool a tiny bit and to give you chance to build up a nice coal bed.
Add 1 bottle of brown pickled onions, with all the liquid. Size of the bottle depends on the amount of ox tail your doing and how much you like the onions.
Now comes the waiting part, you basically cook the oxtail with the pickled onions over the fire for the next couple of hours. Make sure it isn't too hot! you just want it simmering nicely. Ad coals as the day progresses and top up your pot with a bit of water now and then, not a lot though.
Finally about an hour before your ready to serve add 1 big bottle of those Koo broad beans(could be butter beans can't remember now, I know the bottle by sight) with the light brown sauce, just toss it all in and let is simmer again.
Serve on stamp and a nice pot bread.
Fillet
Get a nice piece of fillet and rest it in some port or red wine over night.
Roll in brown sugar(not the one with molasses) and crushed pepper corns until it has a nice crust.
Braai on a hot fire and continue to roll in more sugar and pepper. Your trying to get a nice carmalised crust on the meat.