time for a break up

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techead

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I hate doing this... :sick:

where? how? she's a soft person so either a quick BOMB or do it sloooooowly :confused:

:(
 
HTC_guy said:
I hate doing this... :sick:

where? how? she's a soft person so either a quick BOMB or do it sloooooowly :confused:

:(
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Do it fast and be to the point. (be a jerk if you can) so she can get mad at you. Makes it easier to get over someone. (Trust me, I know).

Just my experience though.
 
oooi.....hated this too back in the day

there is no easy way to do it, so either way it's gonna suck


good luck
 
send a "please call" and then tell her that way she has something funny to tell her girlfriends.
 
so a bomb it is... :erm:

so I just call and say we need to speak or what? neutral ground? (was supposed to go there tomorrow night)
 
Whatever you do, do not use the “it is not you, it is me” phrase or the “we can still be friends” phrase. Let her decide if she still wants to be friends.

And don’t do it in a public place. Send her an email explaining the break up and follow it up with coffee somewhere private where you can chat about it. She’ll know what to expect and the initial shock should have worn off by then.
 
PythonFSi said:
Don't over do it! A phone call is fine!
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No, its not. It might be better for the person that is doing the breaking up, but for the other person its worse. Give her the respect she deserves and speak to her face to face. You owe her at least that. If she gets angry, then take it like a man, but stand your ground. A phone call is perhaps the easy way....does not mean it is the right way.
 
Cheri_N said:
Whatever you do, do not use the “it is not you, it is me” phrase or the “we can still be friends” phrase. Let her decide if she still wants to be friends.

And don’t do it in a public place. Send her an email explaining the break up and follow it up with coffee somewhere private where you can chat about it. She’ll know what to expect and the initial shock should have worn off by then.
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thats actually pretty good advice - never thought of doing that before

plus, coming from a lady, this must be the right thing to do...
 
HTC_guy said:
break up over the phone!?!? I thought that was the prick thing to do... thought it was always supposed to be in person???
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Na! Thats only in the movies! Phone call and move on!

Cheri_N said:
And don’t do it in a public place. Send her an email explaining the break up and follow it up with coffee somewhere private where you can chat about it. She’ll know what to expect and the initial shock should have worn off by then.
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DO NOT do this! Hot liquids is not a good idea! Hot coffee in your face will sting for weeks! Hence just the phone call!

Think damnit!
 
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