what exactly constitutes cheating?

... that parasite that takes 9 months to leave your body and then eats all your money and free time for the next 20 plus years

:wtf: What do you mean 20 plus years??? I was going to give it 20 years tops and then change the locks on the doors!
 
If that's your view then at least have the balls to call them out the very moment it happens. Not wait 6 months then use it as an excuse to break up /facepalm

But he says they did talk about it when it happened. He's just not been able to get over it. Which is why I say he should break up with her.
 
But he says they did talk about it when it happened. He's just not been able to get over it. Which is why I say he should break up with her.

He would have known back then already that he won't be able to get over it. Why stick it out for 6 months? So she rubbed her arsed against a guys junk... no foul. God forbid she kisses his dad hello when they go visit :o
 
Thanks for all the candid replies to my questions. Maintaining one relationships is a headache, so I can't imagine handling more than one at a time. But I guess we're all different and we get our satisfaction in different ways.
 
Thanks for all the candid replies to my questions. Maintaining one relationships is a headache, so I can't imagine handling more than one at a time. But I guess we're all different and we get our satisfaction in different ways.

Do not equate sex with a relationship. The two are vastly different.
 
Thanks for all the candid replies to my questions. Maintaining one relationships is a headache, so I can't imagine handling more than one at a time. But I guess we're all different and we get our satisfaction in different ways.

honestly I have 1 relationship. the one that counts.

all the other people are simply something different to keep me more in love with the one I will spend the rest of my life with.

and they all know I am there to give the time of their life SEXUALY and nothing more.
and for some reason they still come back for more. why guys come back for more with my SO is very logical, she is amazing in bed.
 
Thanks for all the candid replies to my questions. Maintaining one relationships is a headache, so I can't imagine handling more than one at a time. But I guess we're all different and we get our satisfaction in different ways.

raising kids should be work, cleaning a house should be work, but why should a relationship be work? if you love someone, you should trust them, respect them and want them to be the most wonderful person they can be.

if you know upfront in a relationship - this is the way i am - then you know what to expect. it's when somebody promises themselves to you and nobody else but you, and then flirts with other people that we feel that they are no longer committed to us. if from the start you are told: "i love other ladies and will often flirt with other ladies, but you're special to me", then you know what to expect and are getting involved in a relationship based on the fact that he likes to flirt, but he also likes you for the special person you are
 
Thanks for all the candid replies to my questions. Maintaining one relationships is a headache, so I can't imagine handling more than one at a time. But I guess we're all different and we get our satisfaction in different ways.

Go and have a ****ty lay and you will realise how much you love your current partner :p
 
Do not equate sex with a relationship. The two are vastly different.

+1

Sometimes you are very happy with someone and love them tons but you require a sexual component that they can't provide. Some couples are able to understand this give each other the space to experiment or experience these things. Like somebody else mentioned. You still go home to the one you love.
 
What keeps you and this woman together?

Since this woman can speak for herself:

The fact that I love him, trust him and can talk to him. The fact that he respects my autonomy, my choices and me.

The fact that he is comfortable with our lifestyle and my sexuality. The fact that we have both done things in the past that we're not proud of, but that we don't let those things colour our relationship.

The fact that, despite evidence to the contrary, he is a decent human being who actually does give a damn about those that he loves.

The fact that he's not a bigoted douche with a chip on his shoulder.

Also, why would I get tired of him? He's fantastic in bed, does dishes and cooks. He's f***ing perfect.
 
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