Now that your wife has gone to stay somewhere else, and you might be going away, make sure that the moves don't prevent the Sheriff of the Court serving the divorce papers. The Sheriff has to be able to know where to find you, and to find her. If the Sheriff tries to serve, but you, or she, are/is no longer at the former address, that's certainly going to cause everything to take longer (and possibly cost more). Generally, it's a good idea to do whatever is in your power to ensure that the current addresses are made known.