Am I right?

Geriatrix said:
Like I said, she's hedging her bets. She wants to keep you around in case this new "pet" is not all he seems to be. She can then keep you until a better option comes round.
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I couldn't have said it better myself. She's not yet too sure about this other guy, so she just wants you to stick around until she's sure, then breaks up with you. I know you probably invested a lot on this woman, BUT with the global financial turmoil, there is no returns at all.
 
Well I guess there have it :

If you're horny, go to a support group ... bound to get something there. Almost 3 years relationship and 18 months living together gone over a signle support group person :/ Waste of my life again as now I now need to start dating, engagement, married and kids - at least 5 years from now!

Niiiice
 
Dolby said:
Well I guess there have it :

If you're horny, go to a support group ... bound to get something there. Almost 3 years relationship and 18 months living together gone over a signle support group person :/ Waste of my life again as now I now need to start dating, engagement, married and kids - at least 5 years from now!

Niiiice
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I'm horny.
 
timgaul said:
I'm horny.
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Then do a support group.

The new ones are very vulnerable ; from what I've heard, you can get em with ease - single, boyfriend or married,

And you've heard with your own ears how people sleep around and flirt ;)
 
Dolby said:
Then do a support group.

The new ones are very vulnerable ; from what I've heard, you can get em with ease - single, boyfriend or married,

And you've heard with your own ears how people sleep around and flirt ;)
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Of course you don't want to keep around after you've used 'em. They're a little... crazy :D
 
Then you go to the NEXT one the following day ;)

Different areas, different meeting, different people, different vulnerable females ...
 
lol reminds me of Fight Club, they have support groups in SA?
 
Dolby said:
Then you go to the NEXT one the following day ;)

Different areas, different meeting, different people, different vulnerable females ...
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Yay!

*claps hands*

EDIT: Oh, I forgot. What problem should I have? Should I be an addict or an alcoholic and an addict?
 
They all work ... I bet even a pottery class will have the effects :/ Except, then you have to pretend to like pottery.

For you, I reckon alcohlic then ... ;)
 
Dolby said:
They all work ... I bet even a pottery class will have the effects :/ Except, then you have to pretend to like pottery.

For you, I reckon alcohlic then ... ;)
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How do you know that I'm not really addicted to pottery-making? Its like you don't know me at all! You're abusive, especially when you drink. You've turned me into this... this... alcoholic!

Tee hee.
 
Yea but it's not his fault entirely :/

I mean yes, he knew about me and still went after an 'unavailable' women - but she was just as wrong in replying, hiding things and wanting to contact him
 
Dolby said:
Yea but it's not his fault entirely :/

I mean yes, he knew about me and still went after an 'unavailable' women - but she was just as wrong in replying, hiding things and wanting to contact him
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Yup, two to tango and all. Who was wrongerer (as Dubya would ask) in this situation though? I suppose as it applies you couldn't give a damn about Jeff but rather about the Jeff-situation that has resulted :/
 
I'm guessing 50:50 share?

I dunno ... personally I wouldn't SMS or harass a girl with a boyfriend because

a) I wouldn't want to interfere with them and she's attached / happy
b) Most women would say 'I have someone. Sorry' and not continue as if there's a chance. It should be ended before it starts

I'd have thought there were alot more respectful guys around that wouldn't interfere ; and I'd hoped I had someone who'd stop before things get out hand. Wrong on both counts though :/
 
He knew she was vulnerable as she had just started the group, he is a shark and needs someone to introduce their foot to the back of his head
 
Dolby said:
I'm guessing 50:50 share?

I dunno ... personally I wouldn't SMS or harass a girl with a boyfriend because

a) I wouldn't want to interfere with them and she's attached / happy
b) Most women would say 'I have someone. Sorry' and not continue as if there's a chance. It should be ended before it starts

I'd have thought there were alot more respectful guys around that wouldn't interfere ; and I'd hoped I had someone who'd stop before things get out hand. Wrong on both counts though :/
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Well there is always the chance she is in a destructive or abusive relationship (and no I make no references to any quotes, just a general comment) and she is looking for a way out. She may be frightened to abandon the only thing she knows for some almost irrational fear. Perhaps she sees in a guy a way out, or a way to the happiness she's lost but its, well, complicated :/

So in your case, its not really cool. But there may be exceptions because she may be attached, but not happy.
 
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