Am I right?

timgaul said:
"It started out with a kiss, how did it end up like this? It was only a kiss..."

Uh huh, things have a way of escalating.
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"Now they're going to bed
And my stomach is sick
And it's all in my head
But she's touching his chest
Now, he takes off her dress"
 
remybfg10k said:
He knew she was vulnerable as she had just started the group, he is a shark and needs someone to introduce their foot to the back of his head
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Yup. But that's what they do purposely. I mentioned I had been to a meeting? In that meeting 2 guys admitted that's what they did - and one of the new girls said she was currently being 'harassed'. Along with my girlfriend, her 'harasser' and another I know of, that's a large percentage.

remybfg10k said:
How did things get out of hand though? Did they kiss or something?
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Well I'm not sure what has happened, because the facts I have are :

He crossed boundries initially and she apparantly got a supervisor to stand in and tell him to calm down
Her meetings and social times with the group revved up
She deleted SMSed (didn't want me to know)
She didn't know anyone was at home with the call (wasn't going to tell me either)

Plus, we fought majorly over him specifically only days before - yet she still took the chance.

Those all point towards something.
 
Dolby said:
Yup. But that's what they do purposely. I mentioned I had been to a meeting? In that meeting 2 guys admitted that's what they did - and one of the new girls said she was currently being 'harassed'. Along with my girlfriend, her 'harasser' and another I know of, that's a large percentage.



Well I'm not sure what has happened, because the facts I have are :

He crossed boundries initially and she apparantly got a supervisor to stand in and tell him to calm down
Her meetings and social times with the group revved up
She deleted SMSed (didn't want me to know)
She didn't know anyone was at home with the call (wasn't going to tell me either)

Plus, we fought majorly over him specifically only days before - yet she still took the chance.

Those all point towards something.
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Any idea what the conversation was about?
 
remybfg10k said:
Any idea what the conversation was about?
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Obviously only got her side, but got things like (all paraphrased, but the idea is there)...

'no way, dude! ... I've been with him for like ... forever'
'you mind if I contact you to see how things are'

Also something about looking for a boarding house or another place to live.

But the part that did it for me was even them having the conversation in the first place - irrespective of the content.

Based on the deception surrounding him over deleting texts, increased activity at support groups (where he is) and the fact that we fought (and almost ended it) for a week prior - was enough.
 
Dolby said:
Obviously only got her side, but got things like (all paraphrased, but the idea is there)...

'no way, dude! ... I've been with the guy for like ... forever'
'you mind if I contact you to see how things are'

Also something about looking for a boarding house or another place to live.

But the part that did it for me was even them having the conversation in the first place - irrespective of the content.

Based on the deception surrounding him over deleting texts, increased activity at support groups (where he is) and the fact that we fought (and almost ended it) for a week prior - was enough.
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You missed the nonchalant reference to your person!
 
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