Yeah but you can arguably say you werent aware of the extent of the attrocities committed before '94.
I don't think normal really knew exactly what happened in those days. Even the ex-president claim to not know about much of what happened.
The question should rather be: Can we learn from the past, take that what was good, and build on it, or are we going to focus on getting back at everybody that might have wronged someone?
The problem with the whole "eye for an eye" thing, is that it never ends, and will destroy all parties in the end.