Girlfriend letting go

Lament said:
Now comes the problem, since we met she has probably picked up 40kg, I don’t even know how this is possible.
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Well I guess you know her probably pretty well? Does she eat allot? Compulsive eating?

Is she on contraceptive (birth control) medication or something? Those things can also mess up a women's hormones and some women pickup weight very fast.

Most woman who respect themselves would like for their partners to show interest in them and will try to do their best to keep each other happy. So maybe it is time you have a chat with her. Remember also it goes both ways. But be sensitive how you do it.
 
Pitbull said:
No don't listen to abzo!



Post just one thing in a way it gets interpreted wrong and abzo never forgets, you BASTARD! :D
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Werfetter said:
There should be Murpheys Law for the internet. Post something that could be in any way misinterpreted and someone will come along take a screenshot of it and remind you of it every chance they get.
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Misinterpreted? He said he's willing to have sex with men under no duress. That's not being misinterpreted, that's being bisexual.
 
She may have been overweight all her life but went on diet just before you met her. Have you seen old photos of her?

+1 for pregnant.
 
abzo said:
Misinterpreted? He said he's willing to have sex with men under no duress. That's not being misinterpreted, that's being bisexual.
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Well no? Not based on your above sentence? If that sentence is the whole truth and includes all the context required, he is gay. He would be bisexual if he would also have sex with woman under no duress but that is not stated or even implied by your post in isolation so your post would be incorrect. :whistle: :D

But looking at how fervently Pitbull denies your claims your are probably right about this one. The "lady" doth protest too much...
 
Pitbull said:
You love the idea of her, you don't love her.

I can be with my wife even if she weighs 200kgs because I love her. She can never gross me out. That is the difference between love and desire. If you can't see yourself caring for her if she's dying and ****ting herself... just get out. You don't love her and it will just end badly
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ffs...the first person to actually say something useful around here.

I was going to ask what he was going to do when they were older and she needed help changing adult diapers.
 
crackersa said:
ffs...the first person to actually say something useful around here.

I was going to ask what he was going to do when they were older and she needed help changing adult diapers.
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At the rate she's expanding, she'll be wearing them next week.
 
abzo said:
Misinterpreted? He said he's willing to have sex with men under no duress. That's not being misinterpreted, that's being bisexual.
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Wrong I said, should I need to for survival I could. Massive difference :p :D
 
I think we scared the OP away as soon as the word "pregnant" appeared.
 
GoB said:
Yea but maybe he would be willing if necessary. He can still avoid having a sexless life without breaking up so why not.
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Yes he can, again this is desire/lust not love. Massive difference.

I think lots of people don't know the difference...
 
Let it go, tell her it's you not her... But we all know it's her
 
Come on man..... don't let her weight bother you.

Concentrate on her positive qualities.... I mean I'm sure she must be a ton of fun to have around
 
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