Girlfriend letting go

Really? I am talking in general broad strokes. If you visited the Bodybuilding thread, you would know this.

Being 40kgs overweight at 5ft8 would put body fat at around 40 to 50%. You can look up a picture with comparisons to get an idea.

Just checked my BMI. I'm 182cm and weigh 85kg. OMG!!!! I'M OVERWEIGHT!!!!!!!!!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...

Sigh
 
Are you insane???

So weight has a direct correlation to fat percentage??? Sorry man, try again.

OMFG.

She has picked up 40kg of weight, which is most likely all fat. I am trying to demonstrate how much fat that would be on the average woman's frame. Seriously. Weight has a direct correlation to fat percentage depending on how much of it is fat...

Just checked my BMI. I'm 182cm and weigh 85kg. OMG!!!! I'M OVERWEIGHT!!!!!!!!!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...

Sigh

Could be depending on your body composition. If you lift, not so. Jesus. Do I have to draw little pictures to demonstrate that I am talking in broad strokes and in a language that most people can understand?

Besides, I doubt very much that the OP's G/F is a BB.
 
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2m?? Holy crap that is tall.

I recall hearing that there isn't such a thing as being big boned...Sorry Pitbull. :whistle:

hehe,

Nea I mean sure he's not muscular, nor is he fat. A little chubby maybe. And he's an electrician on site every day the whole day so he's not unfit. just... big :D
 
Could be depending on your body composition. If you lift, not so. Jesus. Do I have to draw little pictures to demonstrate that I am talking in broad strokes and in a language that most people can understand?

Besides, I doubt very much that the OP's G/F is a BB.

Yes please, I like pictures.
 
hehe,

Nea I mean sure he's not muscular, nor is he fat. A little chubby maybe. And he's an electrician on site every day the whole day so he's not unfit. just... big :D

Voluptuous :D
 
Married 11 years, together 16.

Yea, I don't know about obese I might draw a line there. But where does obese start? 150kgs?
For me it starts at the point where you start feeling turned off. Doesn't apply to those with fat fetishes ofc.

Anyway I don't know why it should be difficult for the OP to just raise it as an issue. If he had to start smoking or do something that turned her off, I'm sure he'd also wait for her to raise it as an issue, otherwise assume everything is fine...
 
OMFG.

She has picked up 40kg of weight, which is most likely all fat. I am trying to demonstrate how much fat that would be on the average woman's frame. Seriously. Weight has a direct correlation to fat percentage depending on how much of it is fat...

If she had a body fat percentage of 20% before (which is actually quite lean for women), she would now have a body fat percentage of 52%, which is pretty obese.
 
If she had a body fat percentage of 20% before (which is actually quite lean for women), she would now have a body fat percentage of 52%, which is pretty obese.

Dude. Careful. You may be labelled shallow. Or have some personal trainer trying to correct your assumptions or question your knowledge.
 
If she's not prepared to make healthy lifestyle choices then it's time to drop this whale. Plenty of fish in the sea.
Alternatively hire/borrow an acceptable size wedding dress and ask her to squeeze into it.

I think she'll get the message. No woman wants to be dik on her wedding day.
 
You love the idea of her, you don't love her.

I can be with my wife even if she weighs 200kgs because I love her. She can never gross me out. That is the difference between love and desire. If you can't see yourself caring for her if she's dying and ****ting herself... just get out. You don't love her and it will just end badly

I disagree
You might love her but the intensity of intimacy will depend on how she feels not you. There's nothing more off puting than a woman who's insecure about her weight, refuses to dress seductively, wants the lights off etc.
And at 200km it's gets worse and uncomfortable for both of you.
 
I disagree
You might love her but the intensity of intimacy will depend on how she feels not you. There's nothing more off puting than a woman who's insecure about her weight, refuses to dress seductively, wants the lights off etc.
And at 200km it's gets worse and uncomfortable for both of you.

Pfft, turn that biatch over and slap that ass :p
 
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