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Viper25

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Ok...

So my gf has guy friends.... i'm fine with that...
Then she asks me if i'll be fine with them crashing at her place when they need a place to stay... :mad:

Am i in the wrong to think she need's to be set straight...?
Cos i'm a guy...and i know how guys think...

Guy's cant be just friends with a female.... (close friends)
They always want more....
I trust my gf though.... but i just feel this is not right....

Am i wrong?
 
We so need a relationship section on this site... haha!

I have to agree... I wouldn't be happy with it, but there are exceptions (some guys can be friends with woman) but it's a better idea to avoid it (not test the waters) than to have to face it at all.

I'd suggest you give her a talking too, it's not a good idea unless you know the guy and you know the relationship between the 2 (like, they very friendly or have known each other for like... ever)
 
Viper25 said:
Ok...

So my gf has guy friends.... i'm fine with that...
Then she asks me if i'll be fine with them crashing at her place when they need a place to stay... :mad:

Am i in the wrong to think she need's to be set straight...?
Cos i'm a guy...and i know how guys think...

Guy's cant be just friends with a female.... (close friends)
They always want more....
I trust my gf though.... but i just feel this is not right....

Am i wrong?
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BS, they want to nail her.

I only have friends of the opposite sex if I want to nail them ;)
 
i banned my gf from having guy friends, coz being a guy i know what i'm thinking everytime i see a girl ;) i guess thats why i was also banned from having girl "friends" :D
 
Ask her if its ok if 3 of your chick friends come stay at your place for a while :)

Woman are waaaaayyyyyyyyy more jealous and insecure than guys (yes i am taking this in general terms )
 
lol I have some friends who are girls and the missus has some friends who are guys but a sleepover is a definite no-no
 
gdiza said:
We so need a relationship section on this site... haha!

I have to agree... I wouldn't be happy with it, but there are exceptions (some guys can be friends with woman) but it's a better idea to avoid it (not test the waters) than to have to face it at all.

I'd suggest you give her a talking too, it's not a good idea unless you know the guy and you know the relationship between the 2 (like, they very friendly or have known each other for like... ever)
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If a relationship section did exist.. i would be a frequent visitor... :o
Relationships are just so complex sometimes... might give you alot, but also takes alot out of you...

Yup.. i will have to talk to her... i know some of her guy friends...
and i dont like any of them...
 
If they can crash at her place, then you can crash at other girls places and girls can crash at your place. Im sure your gf would see things very differently if the situation was switched around.
 
nah, u have nothing to worry about, my daughter has guy friends stay/crash over often, but the BF not allowed in case he gets the wrong idea...

you should have nothing to worry about....unless of course....
 
furnic said:
nah, u have nothing to worry about, my daughter has guy friends stay/crash over often, but the BF not allowed in case he gets the wrong idea...

you should have nothing to worry about....unless of course....
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lmao, pls tell me you're joking :D
 
Viper25 said:
Ok...

So my gf has guy friends.... i'm fine with that...
Then she asks me if i'll be fine with them crashing at her place when they need a place to stay... :mad:

Am i in the wrong to think she need's to be set straight...?
Cos i'm a guy...and i know how guys think...

Guy's cant be just friends with a female.... (close friends)
They always want more....
I trust my gf though.... but i just feel this is not right....

Am i wrong?
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Sounds like she wants to keep her options open.
 
furnic said:
nah, u have nothing to worry about, my daughter has guy friends stay/crash over often, but the BF not allowed in case he gets the wrong idea...

you should have nothing to worry about....unless of course....
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Wow, if I was the bf I would be really pissed at you for allowing something like that..
 
Pitbull said:
BS, they want to nail her.

I only have friends of the opposite sex if I want to nail them ;)
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Yup... i have to agree.... i know they want to nail her...
i trust her... but im just uneasy abt having another guy in my territory...

I stay away from female friends when im in a serious relationship..
because i know... being a guy.. i'd want to nail them at some stage...
so having a female friend around while im in a relationship, is a big no no :o
 
dude, keep the leash short and an eye on the "friends"!!
 
Id let my daughter ( when i get to that point ) have guy friends sleep over. Only diff is i'll pull them aside and tell them that if i catch them in her room when they shouldn't be there, Ill tie them up, place a rat on the abdomen, place a steel bowl over the rat and start heating the bowl up.
 
Pixie22 said:
Wow, if I was the bf I would be really pissed at you for allowing something like that..
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Its a ruse . . the b/f is really just a friend and the real b/f is pretending they're just friends . . .

edit - seems Pitbull has the same idea :)
 
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