how u chage a selfish person

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a friend off mine is having this problem ..

" i love you , but im not in love with you .. ? WTF " its not what it used to be like theirs no sparkle in the relationship his not romantic enough " married for 4 years dating 12 yrs he met her when she was 17 i think and now the problem is that she is earning more money than him and he invested all and to make things even worse said to him that he married her and as a husband he must surpport her fiancally and she doesnt want to contribute anything towards the house and stuff " its a husbands responsiblitly and i need a man to look up to and " because his paying his debts off from a loan from his mom she also feels he should take out a bond and feels will make life easier ? when they go out she makes him pay for everything and she saves all her money and buys clothes and rubs it in his face wot do u guys think ? SELFISH


so much for love ....




dont mean to be mean to women out there but read this

what can i do help him whereby she doesnt want to listen and he she moved out of the house already ?
 
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This made about as much sense as RZA and Balstrome debating with each other...

I give it a giant :wtf:
 
I think I managed to make sense of that post. Were you drunk when you wrote that?
You friend could grow a pair of balls and stop putting up with that crap.
 
"I love you, but I'm not in love with you" <-- means she found some other dude to suck off and make happy and doesn't want to be with you anymore. Clear cut dry. Nothing to do with money. (Something you discuss openly and honestly, especially if you've known each other 20+ years)
 
There's no cure for selfishness. Finish and klaar. If someone doesn't care, then they never will.
 
She needs to be secretly put down and buried in your back garden. That is all.
 
that would be nice but i dont wanna tell him that because hes in a fragile state i told him what about a compromise ? and he siad that shes stubborn and treating him badly doesnt really talk to him and giving him the cold shoulder and when she wnats something in return then all off a sudden shes nice agian ..
 
so what do i tell him to move on with his life and divorce the stubborn women ?
 
confused GP, seriously. I tend to wonder why people with 20 years+ experience in relationships tend to turn out idiots. Did he marry the first woman he ever dated? That's probably why.

Women will always be nice to you if they want something from you <-- you can take that **** to the bank

If she's giving him the cold shoulder (I assume you mean sex here) and she's stubborn (I assume you mean sex here) and she treats him badly (I assume you mean sex here) and she uttered the words "I love you but I'm not in love with you" then he should kick her stanky-whore-ass to the curb and let her go get some cock (she's probably getting on the side already)

You can't change people. You can't change a selfish person. That **** should have been drilled into their personality when they were growing up. She won't change. You (or your friend) has 100% control over what he does with his life and going forward.

He should be the one filing for divorce citing that she's not willing to go on with the marriage and that, even trying to resolve the issues, nothing has helped.

**** her (not literally)... why should he have to put up with her **** (same goes either way). A person doesn't have to change you or you for them to be in a 50/50 loving healthy relationship / marriage.

Tell your friend to go look for his balls and put them back in his pants.
 
yes the money and i think greedy part got to her cause this poor dude invest most of his money and now the markets not performing she wants to bail shes already 3months gone and his poor guy is trying his best but no luck
 
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