I am having a breakdown

File for maintenance,

Then leave cheating husband. (Maintenance will supplement your income enough to get by if your lawyer is good enough)
 
You need a plan of action .
Get rid of the headache first , it will probably be high blood pressure . go to a doctor and sort it .
Then find out for sure if he is cheating , check his phone , do the spy thing .
Forget about the maintenance for now it is just adding to your stress .
Get the facts together and then decide what to do .

Plan of action is a good idea. It will help give structure to the situation.
 
Sort out the maintenance thing. It's for your kid, not for you and your husband, and to be frank it's none of his business.
That will also give you a bit of leeway when you decide to leave your husband should you do so.

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and then sit back and decide what you want from life.
Does your child deserve a miserable mom or a happy one?
 
["I have a child with my ex-husband and he is not helping me financially. My current husband is against filing for maintenance. His argument being, the child will grow up and make their own decision and see the truth"


This is enough of a reason for me to end the relationship. Don’t go looking for other reasons end it now, life is far too short to be with someone who is clearly not in a partnership relationship with you.
 
["I have a child with my ex-husband and he is not helping me financially. My current husband is against filing for maintenance. His argument being, the child will grow up and make their own decision and see the truth"


This is enough of a reason for me to end the relationship. Don’t go looking for other reasons end it now, life is far too short to be with someone who is clearly not in a partnership relationship with you.

If that is your reasoning I can't see you being in any kind of partnership tbh.
 
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