I feel awful

U got played bro! She probably didnt wanna let u tip her uss! I've heard that xcuse so many times bro. Ya, its really drives one mad when u learn that afta u, she got hooked with some other dude and they do all stuff that she didnt wanna do with ya.

Take a chill pill or some coffee and spread yo wings and meet some other chicks. Eish, sorry man, I feel ya.
 
mercurial said:
Fck dude that's terrible. How do you know she really is doing all that stuff? Maybe she is just saying that to hurt to? Or if someone else told you, maybe they just want to hurt to?
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well the new guy has a shop in town, and one of my good friends work there, and they talk about stuff like that...
 
thedutchman said:
well the new guy has a shop in town, and one of my good friends work there, and they talk about stuff like that...
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Even then, if your friend is saying those things, he is probably just saying the things that he has been hearing, which in all possibility can be false, ie: I'm sure person who started this possible rumour knew that the info would eventually trickle down to you since your friend works there...
It could very well be a rumour just to hurt you...
 
same thing happened to me dude, but heh, what else can you do... I'm having a tough time at the moment but keeping (or trying to) positive. Sort of trying to relax (I have a huge broom up my ass) and trying to enjoy life all on my lonesome. If a girl wants to join me sure, but otherwise I don't really care at the moment, even though I could do without the physical part and just do with that real emotional connection one has in conversations and hanging out... but anyway

big up to you. don't feel awful, sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together. shes obviously learned out of her experience with you and changed accordingly.

I know my ex used to say (and kick herself for it) when her dead beat boyfriends used to turn out to change their entire lives after she dumped them for the better and that sometimes she wishes she was back together with him blablabla. I was her first non-dead beat boyfriend, but the crap is, what she thought she wanted didn't really seem all too rosey when she got it. So she's back to the (usually more less "broom stuck in the ass" dead beat boyfriends, lol)

So if you can pick yourself up from this experience, dust yourself off, BE BETTER for it and change yourself for YOU to be better... then down the line she'll kick herself for not waiting.

heh, I'm rambling on, I should go throw myself into my cheese burger and fries and continue work :)
 
thedutchman said:
well no, thats what i tell my self all the time now, she's not worth it and stuff like that, but i still really loved her, well i dont do anymore, i can almost say, that i hate her for what she has done to me, but for petes sake, and it was her first time too, she always said, yah i want it with you, i will do this to you and that when we are married :eek: and now this, i just think its not fair but she doesnt really care about that, i suppose
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With my first gf it was the exact same hey, the reason for her probably doing those things now is because she realized that breaking up that she won't want to wait all that time for something that might happen a few years from now.

Same with me and the reason why I went out and screwed the first thing I saw, I had this notion of waiting to get married etc but when that turned into a crock of ****... well... yea
 
well i know that she has changed, she started swearing, like a lot, she never used to, like never, she would even tell me not to say *****, okay, its a good way to live, i mean, not swearing brings in peaceness and stuff, so it would'nt surpirse me, if this isnt a rumour.... and why would she get back at me?

to acidrazor, yes thats what i did as well, haha..
 
mercurial said:
Who knows...we are talking about women after all. The queens of irrational, mercurial emotions.
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true, oh well, i actually shouldn't be bothered, if she wants to go that route, she has to do it, just means that she might fall really hard some time, to be honest, i hope she falls pregnant and than i'll laugh myself silly.
 
thedutchman said:
true, oh well, i actually shouldn't be bothered, if she wants to go that route, she has to do it, just means that she might fall really hard some time, to be honest, i hope she falls pregnant and than i'll laugh myself silly.
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LMAO. Well, if she is doing this to get back at you, she will mostly likely really fck up somewhere along the line, and by the sounds of it, sooner than later.
 
Jammer om van jou probleme te hoor, ou maat.

Daar is baie visse in die see, beste is om maar van haar te vergeet en iemand anders te gaan soek.

Ek kan nie se hoekom sy so optree nie, maar beste is om maar iemand anders te kry.

Anders gaan sy jou bly seermaak so.

Sterkte.

ekke.
 
thedutchman said:
Hi guys,
I broke up with my GF just after my b day in Feb after a big fight and in the beginning of march, i started fighting back for her caused i was stupid and bla bla bla, was really sorry about it and stuff..
She always told me, no sex before marriage so i sortoff had to live with it. So when i was trying to win her back, her reasons were, i cant give u what u want so i said i'll wait for you.

Guess what, she has a new boy friend now, and all of a sudden, she does everything with him she never wanted to do with me. and i mean, the marriage thing is forgotten. Makes me feel like a total idiot, we were together for like half a year, she always told me, that she wanted to be with me for the rest of her life and bla bla bla.... ah, the worst part, i know this guy, and i dont really like him.. i could kill someone :mad:
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half a year:confused:get on with it,dont look back
 
AcidRaZor said:
With my first gf it was the exact same hey, the reason for her probably doing those things now is because she realized that breaking up that she won't want to wait all that time for something that might happen a few years from now.
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Yeah, that's the way I see it (assuming it's not just a nasty rumour). She thought you guys would be getting married in the future, was waiting for it - then you did something stupid (in your own words ;)), you broke up, and she figured - how long is it going to take to find someone, and get to that same point of expecting marriage with them? And then have the possibility of falling apart again?

She might also feel that that might have contributed to the breakup, and doesn't want that to happen again.
 
thedutchman said:
Hi guys,
I broke up with my GF just after my b day in Feb after a big fight and in the beginning of march, i started fighting back for her caused i was stupid and bla bla bla, was really sorry about it and stuff..
She always told me, no sex before marriage so i sortoff had to live with it. So when i was trying to win her back, her reasons were, i cant give u what u want so i said i'll wait for you.

Guess what, she has a new boy friend now, and all of a sudden, she does everything with him she never wanted to do with me. and i mean, the marriage thing is forgotten. Makes me feel like a total idiot, we were together for like half a year, she always told me, that she wanted to be with me for the rest of her life and bla bla bla.... ah, the worst part, i know this guy, and i dont really like him.. i could kill someone :mad:
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From what you are saying, you need to stop kissing the feet of the woman.
When you do that she loses all respect for you, she realizes she can control you. That no sex thing? Was a fkn control game, and you failed.
Treat woman like sht, they love that..
 
Pixie22 said:
Treat woman like sht, they love that..
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tried that in the end lol, that was also one of the reasons why we broke up :rolleyes: well, i would never treat a woman like ****, i just didnt treat her like i always did, didnt spoil her that often... oh well... i should just forget about the whole thing..
 
thedutchman said:
Hi guys,
I broke up with my GF just after my b day in Feb after a big fight and in the beginning of march, i started fighting back for her caused i was stupid and bla bla bla, was really sorry about it and stuff..
She always told me, no sex before marriage so i sortoff had to live with it. So when i was trying to win her back, her reasons were, i cant give u what u want so i said i'll wait for you.

Guess what, she has a new boy friend now, and all of a sudden, she does everything with him she never wanted to do with me. and i mean, the marriage thing is forgotten. Makes me feel like a total idiot, we were together for like half a year, she always told me, that she wanted to be with me for the rest of her life and bla bla bla.... ah, the worst part, i know this guy, and i dont really like him.. i could kill someone :mad:
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Hahahahaa, this reminds me of a movie the wife dragged me to see this weekend 'Forgetting Sarah Jane'.

If this thread is not a promo for the movie you should go watch, might help get you through this.
 
thedutchman said:
tried that in the end lol, that was also one of the reasons why we broke up :rolleyes: well, i would never treat a woman like ****, i just didnt treat her like i always did, didnt spoil her that often... oh well... i should just forget about the whole thing..
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Dude, you most likely don't want to hear this but she sounds like a bit of a cooze.
If its true what you said about the "no coochie-koo before marriage" and the subsequent hook up with someone else then at best: she is quite confused, at worst: a liar and a hypocrite.
Others have mentioned it already - you are better off, you'll most likely only realise it in a little while. Until then enjoy your single status, when you do find someone else there will be moments when you miss it - thats guys for you. :rolleyes:
 
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