I feel 'skaam' even asking this..

[rurapente]

half the advise here will get you shot. and if u do it, well, good for u

Otherwise, I would think of every involved and make decision to satisfy them all. Esp the closest ones to me, whether they are the same sex or not.

 

[porn$tar]

Remember nothing is as overrated as bad sex or under rated as a good shi7.

Even bad sex is sex. Can't fault you on the good shi7 part.

 

[Morgoth]

Even bad sex is sex. Can't fault you on the good shi7 part.

exactly, bad sex can always we seen as experience..

 

[iDenTiTy]

Eeeeeewwww!!!! Not again.



But what if she doesn't suck like an Electrolux? Then he would have lost a tjom for nothing? Remember nothing is as overrated as bad sex or under rated as a good shi7.



I checked the code and engaged or not she is fair game.

Well, seeing as I need a partner for dancing, I might as well ask her.
I could use this as a test. You know... try the merchandise before a purchase...

That way if I decide to approach her, it would be because I genuinely want to.
If she says "yip" then it would be because she genuinely wants to.

At the moment, it's not like it's sex on the dancefloor..

Is this a good idea?

 

[porn$tar]

Otherwise, I would think of every involved and make decision to satisfy them all. Esp the closest ones to me, whether they are the same sex or not.

Go to Oprah! Go to Oprah!

 

[zippy]

A shag or 2 is in order if your friend has "moved on". But dating. No.

 

[MadMailMan]

Porn$tar & Morgoth, I'm guessing both of you can read my signature without any problems. Eish!

 

[Mila]

Well, seeing as I need a partner for dancing, I might as well ask her.

Good idea then you can see how your mate handles it. And if he throws a hissy fi you can claim it was just innocent.

If not she is fair game.

If she is a loon you and your bud has something to laugh about.

 

[iDenTiTy]

Good idea then you can see how your mate handles it. And if he throws a hissy fi you can claim it was just innocent.

If not she is fair game.

If she is a loon you and your bud has something to laugh about.

Ja. I genuinely need a partner for it anyways.
It IS only innocent.

Kinda like dipping ones toes in the pool before jumping in...

 

[Mila]

Ja. I genuinely need a partner for it anyways.
It IS only innocent.

Kinda like dipping ones toes in the pool before jumping in...

And girl do not brag about nookie... so if that goes there you can keep it quiet.

 

[BinaryJack]

So...we can probably expect a thread very soon about how you and your bro has broken up and how much you miss the times you spent together...

 

[Robocop]

Go for it..... I once dated my best friends ex. And 14 years later we are still happily married.
And yes we are still bros.....
Better than to wonder what if........

 

[Dolby]

3 months?

No, no, no ...

 

[Dolby]

Bone her on the sly for about 2 months, if you reckon there's a future, then approach your mate .. She may be well out of the picture by then .. then 1 night. when you all had to much to drink you tell your mate that you had a few late romantic nights .. should blow over by morning.

I would literally kill you if you were my friend.

 

[SafariTin]

I can already see the "Days of our Lives". Short version.

You make a move.
She rejects it.
Tells your friend about it.
You loose your friend, the girl and the respect of the mutual friends on facebook.

Don't do it!

 

[iDenTiTy]

I can already see the "Days of our Lives". Short version.

You make a move.
She rejects it.
Tells your friend about it.
You loose your friend, the girl and the respect of the mutual friends on facebook.

Don't do it!

Except this version won't have any demonic possessions and such..

 

[Morgoth]

I can already see the "Days of our Lives". Short version.

You make a move.
She rejects it.
Tells your friend about it.
You loose your friend, the girl and the respect of the mutual friends on facebook.

Don't do it!

amg not facebook NOOOOOOOOOOO

better yet, make a move and don't tell your friend about it! cancel your facebook account

 

[Palimino]

You guys are right. So it's window shopping for me.


Damn it.

I’ve been lurking on this thread (I am not swave and debbenair) but I think you have made the right decision – however much will power it took. You can always re-evaluate your options later and suss-out the environment in the mean time.

Consider maybe even explaining the ‘bro code’ to her so that she doesn’t feel rejected. She may be understanding (and relieved) that it’s not her vamping and seductive powers that have waned but your concern over the bro code.

 

[Mila]

Maybe she is into revenge screwing...

 

[porn$tar]

Maybe she is into revenge screwing...

Like angry sex with your partner, but without the emotional attachment. flippin awesome.