I love you

Krudonix

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Hey

would u want ur gf/bf to tell u "I love you" on a regular basis or like once every so often

i've heard various theories that if u say it too often it looses meaning which i dont agree on..

whats ur views ?
 

medicnick83

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I want to hear it, but not like, overboard.

Like, I have a friend whos gf says "I love you" like, every 5 seconds, it feels fake to me.

But If I buy flowers or just kiss someone, then if "I love you" follows and you can see she means it, it's all good.

Affection is awesome to receive, especially if you give it alot.
 

Pooky

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Run from the cops.... Run from the cops...... Come on... Climb the fence...... Climb the fence........ Slash the door.... Slash the door..... Yeah..... Don't be running like you got mace in your face....
 

IzZzy

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What the frack?!? (at above).

I'd prefer to hear it scarcely.. just after the required thought of "I wonder why she hasnt said she loves me" then wham! Makes it all better.
 

The_Techie

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Run from the cops.... Run from the cops...... Come on... Climb the fence...... Climb the fence........ Slash the door.... Slash the door..... Yeah..... Don't be running like you got mace in your face....
Hmmm, if I remember correctly that comes from Pablo Francisco's Comedy Central show (might be Adam Ferrara). Not sure what it's got to do with this thread, though...

Back on topic: I like to hear it occasionally, but not too much.
 

medicnick83

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Run from the cops.... Run from the cops...... Come on... Climb the fence...... Climb the fence........ Slash the door.... Slash the door..... Yeah..... Don't be running like you got mace in your face....
RAS!

This is Pooky with nothing good to say, so to get his post count up, he posts this snot! :mad:
 
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Back on topic: I like to hear it occasionally, but not too much.
If you don't want to hear it that often then it can only mean that you've become too blasé about being loved by someone and that you might be taking that love for granted.

Love in a relationship should be cherished everyday like it's your first day together or like it's your last day together.
 

The_Techie

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If you don't want to hear it that often then it can only mean that you've become too blasé about being loved by someone and that you might be taking that love for granted.

Love in a relationship should be cherished everyday like it's your first day together or like it's your last day together.
If I here it too often I start to get the feeling that it's becoming mundane, so it's more special for me when I do hear it. But I see what you mean :)
 

Pooky

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You guys derail threads all the time. So don't be hatin me or im a pop a cap in ur ass.
 

Lino

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Always love hearing it, although have not heard it in a while from a gf, I mean only been going out with current one for a week... If she said it now i would run
 

elysian

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Yeah, I think if people say it too much, it loses it's value.

But I grew up never hearing those words, so when I hear them now, I feel strange/uncomfortable. Weird. As a result, I hardly say them, unless it's a "you too". :eek:

But I do force myself to tell my kids that I love them (probably not enough). And it's great when they tell me that they love me (on their own)! :D
 

blunomore

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I never heard it when I grew up either, until I was already an adult when my mum said it to me for the 1st time.

My bf and I say it to each other regularly, especially because he travels a lot and I want my last words to him everytime he leaves the house to be kind and loving ones.
 

Mephisto_Helix

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Not multiple times daily ... but me likes hearing it oftenish (big romantic sucker in da house :D )
 
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