I'm cheating on my girlfriend.

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Didn't read the whole OP but if you don't love her the right thing to do is to break it off.

You are a douche bag.
 
You may be loving life now having more than 1 chick all over you, but shortly they will all find out, hate your guts, and you will be back to square one. Lonely.
 
Ekstasis said:
Just another dick who can't keep his snake in its cage. You come near my daughter and I'll hang you up..kid you not.
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It's not like that, I didn't go looking for any of it. I'm a nice person if you met me you wouldn't even think I'm capable of cheating.
 
That's not where it stopped though, work colleages I had known before starting hitting on me. And this is where I folded. I cheated on my girlfriend with a girl from work. This girl was extremely sexual, that's what attracted me to her. I could not pass up such an opportunity. But I don't know her intentions yet, I don't know if she would want a relationship with me.

I could not fathom that so many people would want me at one time, I mean... me? Nerdy little old me that had been single for almost a year? Nerdy little old me that yearned for a girlfriend so long? Now I'm cheating on one? What the actual ****? I look at myself in the mirror and think why, I don't even find myself that attractive, what is it about me that would lead to such a sudden interest?
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^^ This shows me that you are to insecure to be faithful to some one. Your ego is so easily swayed that you would cheat just because they show you attention.

18 year olds are fragile and fall in love easily... break this girls heart now before it becomes a problem.
Don't **** people at work... thats the no1 rule. Don't **** where you eat.
Don't **** your friend either... unless you actually care about her. See rule 1

Get this wrong and you will have no job, no friends and a pregnant 18 year old that you don't love.

1 year is not along time to be alone... I was solo for 3 years and it was long enough to sort my issues out and grow up.
 
Karma is bitch.
Stop playing with people and their emotions.

You may think it is fun but wait till you are the one on the other side and a woman you really care about plays with you.
Not fun at all.

You reap what you sow.
 
IRG said:
Dude ... 18y/o is basically still a child ... she has lots to learn in life. Just don't tell her you love her if you don't ... not aaiyoba! Stringing her on is not fair... One meaningfull relationship that fulfills your needs (emotionally & sexually) is waaaay better than empty flings cause you are horny.... If you are playing the field, all fine, if your partners know thats the extent of your commitment.
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I get what you're saying. I guess long term she would be the best option because I know the other one has no issues cheating...

I guess I should play things out a bit more and then decide.
 
Rockhound said:
Karma is bitch.
Stop playing with people and their emotions.

You may think it is fun but wait till you are the one on the other side and a woman you really care about plays with you.
Not fun at all.

You reap what you sow.
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this right here ...i stopped my shcit when it bit back

and now im quite happy with no need to cheat
 
Wish I had luck with finding someone who loves me :D 26 and no girlfriend yet
 
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Rockhound said:
Karma is bitch.
Stop playing with people and their emotions.

You may think it is fun but wait till you are the one on the other side and a woman you really care about plays with you.
Not fun at all.

You reap what you sow.
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First girl I ever loved cheated on me. It broke me, when I think of that and putting someone through that. It does change my perspective.
 
sheesh no one ever taught you how to treat others? What you sow you will reap my friend... If not now, it will come later.

One thing I learnt in my mid twenties, was that just because you are lonely doesnt give you the right to fsck with other peoples hearts
 
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Break up with your 18 year old emotional crutch before you hurt her even more.

Be honest with yourself and accept that you just want to fool around at this point and find girls who want to do the same. Believe it or not there are girls who are looking for NSA fun. If you lack the social savvy to find these girls go out and learn until you do.

Lol. A whole year! I've never had a girlfriend dude and I'm 28, even though there have been girls who've made it more than obvious that they like me or want to shag. I'm glad I didn't because I am still busy working through all the baggage my messed up parents left me with. It's only recently that I feel like I am in a relatively healthy mental space and am going out actively trying to meet new girls.
 
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