I also did the same thing. Don't smaak like reading the whole thing so maybe there's a good myBB Samaritan that will give us a recap of what went down?wow.. i read the 1st page and then saw the tags. I guess the issues were a problem??? maybe i must read the other 7 pages.. maybe.
Heavy DaysAs of right now, this thread that I started with some wonderful intentions is dead to me.
I'm sorry guys, but I'm tired of how Risa has derailed this thread.
Risa is posting stuff about how I am with her and such and I've never been with her, how I loved her and such.
I want to just clear things up here.
I've known her since like, god, I can't even remember the date I met her, we've been friends ever since then, I know shes been inlove with me (she may or may not deny it) but I've only ever tried to be a friend and I've always been completely honest with her about my intentions, my friends know my intentions etc.
I don't know who she has told what, but I've already been told that I've slept with her, this is completely not true, she has slept with me but not in a sexual manner, she has a friend whose name I won't mention who has 'dumped' her with me on MANY occasions and as a friend, i've looked after her as best as I can, instead of just leaving her sorry ass at a club and letting her sort herself out (sh0t can clearly stand by me because on many occasions he has himself been suckered into giving her lifts to my place etc)
I've tried my best to tolerate her thru this, but clearly, this thread has pushed her a bit too far with me and this has resulted in me ENDING my friendship with her.
Risa, I've deleted you from my phone book, MXiT, MSN and I plan to delete and block you from my Facebook.
Please Risa, grow the hell up!
I've sat with you outside Springboks while you were in tears crying about how you can't deal with life, life and how family dies (really, still the most stupidist topic I've ever had with a drunk person) (this includes how you can't deal with how rainforests are being cut down?!?!?) etc and whatever immature things you've brought up that night, I've spent copious amounts of time on MXIT and MSN talking to you on how to be better, but I can't deal with you anymore.
I've done my best to tell you how to become a better person, a nicer person but now you've push me away.
I didn't start this thread to piss of you off, I started because finally for once in years, I'm so happy and I just wanted to share it with everyone, thats all really, you have taken this as a personal attack and I don't care.
But having said all this...
Risa is not a bad person, she's got a good heart but she seriously needs to do alot of growing up - I've done my bit, suggesting she stop relying on 'certain' friends for 'a life' and getting a job and I've even been there when all my friends couldn't stand her, hell, even her own friends can barely tolerate her but whatever, what is done is done.
My boundary of limits has been reached, Risa is a 'leech' as it were and I have nothing left to suck and I need to cut her loose.
Please refrain from contacting me - I would appreciate that.
You guys can continue going on with me etc in this thread but I will not see it - if you bring it out the thread an into any other threads, I will ignore it.