Is she cheating????

this is staright out of jerry springer!!!
grow some nuts dude
 
I think just hang in there buddy. And please try not to freak out about her emails etc, just do your thing and see if she wont change. I mean, try to completely ignore that she is flirting and be a best boyfriend you can ever be. If she still continues this by November this year then it's PAY BACK TIME!!! When you go back to Gauteng in December I say screw her cousins, print those emails and mail them to her Mom, cousins, cousin and her parents!!!

Stay calm and play your cards right. I think she is just trying to get you talking etc etc, ignore all of that and focus all your attention on her. This really needs some serious self control and lots of patience. Gud luck
 
Haha I showed a lady this thread and gdiza my son you better hope she doesnt end up coming with tonight - she wants to tune the **** out you , hahah.

J
 
CheesB said:
I'm 25 and she's 21.
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IMO - Any woman under 25 can't commit herself to any relationship. They always change their minds every time. You have 10 yrs+ to shag around bro - if you want to get married when you are 35 like me.
Don't commit yourself to these young biatches.

Since I convinced you to get married when you reach 35:D Do you think this little biaaaatch will still be around by then?
 
CheesB said:
Hhhhhmmmm, since I have nothing to loose, I really wanna get even! Wouldnt it be nice to screw both her cousin sisters? (she has 2). First I tell her how her man is cheating with my GF then .....:eek::eek:
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Don't drop to their "Jerry Springer" level... Even if you are upset now, trying to teach her a lesson is an immature thing to do. Besides, it sound like you are likely to catch an STD. I hope you and your GF aren't sleeping together? When you sleep with someone untrustworthy, that may be sleeping with someone else untrustworhty, etc, etc you never know how long the STD chain goes! :sick:

I think its best to just get out of that group of people.
 
Sorry to hear. It must really hurt to read such emails and to discover that she is possibly shagging some other guy. I say you should leave her, doesnt matter if she slept with him as yet or not. The emails should be good enough reason for you to leave her. You still a young guy. Move on with your life, and remember... time heals most wounds... so you'll be fine. A few months down the line you might meet a really amazing woman and this sk4nk will be a distant memory. All the best ;)
 
Heita_Hola said:
IMO - Any woman under 25 can't commit herself to any relationship. They always change their minds every time. You have 10 yrs+ to shag around bro - if you want to get married when you are 35 like me.
Don't commit yourself to these young biatches.

Since I convinced you to get married when you reach 35:D Do you think this little biaaaatch will still be around by then?
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Why do you say any woman under 25 cant commit?? I dated someone when i was younger than that and could be with him forever and ever. We not all the same you know
 
You shouldnt actually get her back. Just say you want out and move on. Remember what goes around comes around all the time. I seen it happen too much
 
My opinion, and mine is usually right... disconnect. Don't get even. Just leave things alone, move out (if you're living together) break up and give it a breather.

Don't contact her. Continue with your life. Try and find someone else. If you can't then be happy with the person you are and/or strive to become better.

She will continue this pattern of behavior. Like people mentioned, if you smooth things over and the "in love" feeling comes back (which it can), your past actions would make her feel otherwise again if you screw up a tiny bit. She would run back to the other guy (or guys) as they are the fantasies that gave her the feeling you gave her in the beginning.

Just let it go dude. Many other fish in the sea, none can probably be measured against her, but don't, just go out and move on. You should not let this bother you anymore.

Just let it go. I know it's tough. But by being "the bigger man" and being mature about this and letting it go would speak volumes of your personality and character.
 
Its hard letting go as Acidrazor said but its something that you should do. Just have some time out for yourself. Spoil yourself and treat yourself the way you should. Look after number one. It will do you great wonders. It things are meant to be it will happen when the times right.
 
Can I do this?

Thanks to all you guys who read and responded to my thread:cool:

I have been doing some thinking, clearly I really wanna save this relationship, I really cant give up just as yet (besides I dont have concrete proof that they are/have slept together - YES, flirting "sexually flirting" is just as bad as doing it, I know, but my heart tells me to make a plan and try to make it work). Guys, this woman really makes me happy, she's gorgeous, fun, loving, smart, intelligent, a great friend, oh, did I mention that she's a goddess between the sheets:eek::eek:, so, yah, guys, I know most of you are really dissappointed in me right now, but I wanna give it one last shot).

So, I was thinking, I have two options:
(1) Send this GUY an anonymous sms telling him that I know all about his shady business with his GF's cousin and threaten to tell the cousin (his GF) and also provide some proof, etc etc (what else should I say?)

(2) Use the same method to send the cousin an anonymous sms alerting her that her BF is cheating with her cousin and she should try to monitor his calls/ sms, etc and I have proof....

I know it's stupid, but right now this is all I can yhink about to save thius relationship.

Your comments are most definately welcome!

(Well, if it doesnt work, then I will definately call it quit! After all, I would have tried my utmost best).
 
3rd option, don't do anything to alert anyone and rather work on your relationship?
 
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