I’ve never understood this mentality. Where does this guilt come from?
You can die from anything. So should you feel guilty for being alive?
Having kids does not mean you need to stop your own interests.
You will crash and usually u wont have much say in the matter. Thats the risk u take each time u get on
Complete and utter bolloks.
It’s a very woe is me attitude and one that doesn’t take any responsibility for your own actions.
No single accident is 100% someone else’s fault and there is always something you could have done differently to avoid it.
Search yourself and your experience and replay it in your mind to figure out what you did or didn’t do to make a potential accident into a real one.
Only once you can be that honest with yourself and take responsibility for your own actions can you become a better rider and in turn you will stop crashing.
It’s where the whole concept of defensive riding comes in. It’s not always about your ability to respond to a situation but in many cases about not being on the situation in the first place.
And don’t get me wrong. I understand the mentality. I too had it once upon a time.
But the reality is most accidents are avoidable through our own actions.
Doesn’t matter if a driver swung out without indicating and caused the initial circumstances, if you were doing 120km/h in a 60 at the time it’s more your fault than theirs.
It’s why I cannot stand this “the cagers did X” nonsense. It’s never only them.
You increase your own risk through the way you ride and the chances you take.
“Experience” based on time is also an extreme misnomer. If you have been washing dishes for 15 years you are still just a dishwasher and as good as the guy who started last week. You need to elevate yourself and make progress up the chain to really call it experience.
Not saying you know nothing or haven’t learnt anything in 15 years. Just pointing out that progress of time doesn’t mean much.
Someone could have ridden for 15 years but only covered 15,000km for instance.