No intimacy in relationship

xrapidx said:
Its rather pathetic breaking into someone's PERSONAL environment - no wonder she was cheating. I would leave someone on the spot if I discovered they tried something like that on me. (guilty or not)
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Not been established yet, but that is the pre-verdict just because op isn't getting nookie.
 
Pr⊕phet said:
Like what? I still say it takes two to **** up... in most cases.
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Lost interest... started cheating...

Doesn't mean the OP ****ed up - she could have just realised he's not what she wanted, doesn't have the balls to leave him.
 
xrapidx said:
Its rather pathetic breaking into someone's PERSONAL environment - no wonder she was cheating. I would leave someone on the spot if I discovered they tried something like that on me. (guilty or not)
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well then if you want to cheat and be that kind of a person, you should have the balls to get out first. If you want to carry on like a whore or a gigolo when you are in a committed relationship......its your own fault. I am saying this if there is evidence already or reasonable suspicion of cheating
 
marine1 said:
well then if you want to cheat and be that kind of a person, you should have the balls to get out first. If you want to carry on like a whore or a gigolo when you are in a committed relationship......its your own fault. I am saying this if there is evidence already or reasonable suspicion of cheating
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So this is the whole two wrongs make a right?

Whats stopping the other person from leaving if they not getting what they want?
 
xrapidx said:
So this is the whole two wrongs make a right?

Whats stopping the other person from leaving if they not getting what they want?
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Well you see, you are saying you see something wrong with that, I am saying if you want to go to battle in a relationship, be prepared for anything. :D
Yes I know , its a warped view. If you want to betray someone, be prepared .......
Works for both sides
 
If she has changed pills recently it could be that or job stress or something like that. If you know that it isn't anything like that it could be time to walk away. You're at the point in the relationship where you need to make the decision whether to marry or not. If the intimacy is gone it is better to do the difficult thing and break it off. You try living with this with the same woman until you die.
 
marine1 said:
Well you see, you are saying you see something wrong with that, I am saying if you want to go to battle in a relationship, be prepared for anything. :D
Yes I know , its a warped view. If you want to betray someone, be prepared .......
Works for both sides
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But if you hack into someone's Facebook account and they find out the relationship is over anyway, Some you might as well just walk away and avoid the **** storm that is going to come from that.
 
Hmmm. From a woman's perspective - not a good sign. Usually the first sign that there's a problem in the relationship is that intimacy goes out the window, and I don't mean JUST sex (although that's important), but being able to touch, cuddle, laugh together and share your innermost thoughts with each other. Now, believe me, we don't always feel like doing that all the time (we all have our off days), but if she's holding you at arm's length a lot, then you have a problem. When you're in a happy, healthy relationship; intimacy is something you want. If you've tried talking to her and she isn't able to explain, then I'd suggest you try couples counselling. If she doesn't want to do it, and the situation doesn't improve after your chat, then it may just be time to let it go. What is your gut saying to you?
 
It's much harder and takes more out of a Man to fight for a relationship and the one you love.
It's easier to just let it go, run away and start fresh, but ultimately only you know what decision to make.

It all depends on how much you really love your partner. No one can make this decision for you. It's up to us alone :)
 
I don't know hey,take her on a nice night out and then ask her what is wrong. It could just be stress and other things and not you.
 
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