Paying for Dates

Mila said:
No. I'm not. I just want a man that can pay it's own way. I do not want to sit at home because mister man feels emancipated because I can afford to do stuff he can not.
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Well, surely guys have the right to expect a woman to do the same? Why should I sit at home because my gf expects me to pay twice as much as I usually would every time I go out with her?
 
Mila said:
No. I'm not. I just want a man that can pay it's own way. I do not want to sit at home because mister man feels emancipated because I can afford to do stuff he can not.
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Seen that happen & the end is never a pretty sight (friends)
 
Nick333 said:
Well, surely guys have the right to expect a woman to do the same? Why should I sit at home because my gf expects me to pay twice as much as I usually would every time I go out with her?
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I'm sure most ladies will be understanding if they know there's a limit (usually later in a relationship).
But by that time don't blow a grand on a night out with your buds & then the next night tell me there's a R200 limit.
 
When I'm on a date I pay I don't mind, as long as I get nookie! :p
If I'm with a fully platonic friend then she's paying for herself!
 
ChilliGirl said:
I'm sure most ladies will be understanding if they know there's a limit (usually later in a relationship).
But by that time don't blow a grand on a night out with your buds & then the next night tell me there's a R200 limit.
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Please, for little baby Lucifer's sake, tell me you're joking.
 
ChilliGirl said:
Seen that happen & the end is never a pretty sight (friends)
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Been there. I do not expect him to pay forever. I would just like to know he can. It's a mans world. They get paid more and do not have to sit on a cold toilet seat.


:D seriously. Maybe it's just because I 'm older and have had leaches and losers to kick to the curb.
 
Mila said:
Been there. I do not expect him to pay forever. I would just like to know he can. It's a mans world. They get paid more and do not have to sit on a cold toilet seat.


:D seriously. Maybe it's just because I 'm older and have had leaches and losers to kick to the curb.
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Exactly.


&PS it's only a man's world coz we let them believe....
 
ChilliGirl said:
I'm sure most ladies will be understanding if they know there's a limit (usually later in a relationship).
But by that time don't blow a grand on a night out with your buds & then the next night tell me there's a R200 limit.
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hel yeah! That is it.
 
Mila said:
And breed more gingas!!

:D I think if you enjoyed the date 100% you might not mind paying?
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I didn't mind paying. There was no question of me paying. I minded that there was not even an offer of contributing.
 
Nick333 said:
You really think your guy should be paying for you?
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If my dude doesn't wanna pay then he shouldn't ask me to go somewhere....

PS: though we'd been on a few more ''friendly'' dates (friends places, movies, drinks...) On our first ''offical romantic '' date -dinner for 2 at a nice place- he not only paid for dinner but also gave me a R400 bottle of nice smellies as a pressie. :D
 
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