Personal question, not sure what to name this thread.

Azbubu

Azbubu

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This is probably going to sound like a news24 thread but here goes :

Let's say you've become so used to pleasuring yourself lately that when you're in the company of a female, you're unable to get it up since it's become accustomed to only your touch. And when you do eventually manage to get it up, you're unable to climax or it's not as great as when you do it manually.

What's the solution? Is the damage irreversible or would a few weeks of abstaining from self-pleasure sort this out? Is it possible to re-train your body to be turned on by something other than the touch it's used to?
 
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How old are you? Were you nervous? Had you been drinking/drugs (including prescription meds)?
 
D34M0n7 said:
How old are you? Were you nervous? Had you been drinking/drugs (including prescription meds)?
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28. No drugs or drinks. Wasn't really nervous. Initially got it to about 70% of it's usual state but then kept fluctuating. She's not the first girl this happens with. Played with myself later on and it was fine.

Worst thing is the severe case of blue-balls that follows.
 
I think you should ask news24 for advice.


This is a rather touchy subject and it will be hard to provide a quick fix.
 
abzo said:
28. No drugs or drinks. Wasn't really nervous. Initially got it to about 70% of it's usual state but then kept fluctuating. She's not the first girl this happens with. Played with myself later on and it was fine.
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Hmm... Well, you should determine whether its physiological or psychological. I'd recommend you go see a doctor if its troubling you (perhaps get your hormone levels checked), there are a wide range of causes for issues like these.

You don't have an inferiority complex?
 
Blue pill for sure.

Sounds a bit odd. How do you normal pleasure yourself? thoughts, porn? What gets you going, perhaps you are not into chicks.
 
It's not that I can't get it up, I can but mostly when I'm on my own. Too young to be taking the blue pill, no? Just going to try abstaining from myself for a while and see.
 
abzo said:
It's not that I can't get it up, I can but mostly when I'm on my own. Too young to be taking the blue pill, no? Just going to try abstaining from myself for a while and see.
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Ummm the blue pill is for people who cannot get it up. They can be 20 or 100 it will work. Granted your issue is not a medical one but still the blue pill will sort you out until you find females sexy again.
 
killadoob said:
Blue pill for sure.

Sounds a bit odd. How do you normal pleasure yourself? thoughts, porn? What gets you going, perhaps you are not into chicks.
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Yeah usually thoughts. I am into her. Think too much porn has desensitized me? Or has given me unrealistic expectations?
 
Uses some accessories to spice things up.

Whips , handcuffs , strawberries ...




Or chloroform works well.
 
D34M0n7 said:
How much of a sex drive do you have? Masturbation not included...
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Pretty high. Was similar in my previous relationship. The advantage of it though is that you last much longer. Maybe it's not as much a problem as I think it is? It's just that feels there's something wrong with her. I'm sure if we had got around to doing the deed, it would have worked fine.
 
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