Prenatal Paternity Test

Bagook said:
Thanks, I'll be sure to do that. Basically, most people I've told have just laughed it off, saying that I "should just be glad it happened" or that "I should have enjoyed it". Last thing I would be able handle is for that to happen at a police station.
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Any chance that you can get hold of the video that was taken? Would pretty much be incontrovertible evidence.
 
AfricanTech said:
Any chance that you can get hold of the video that was taken? Would pretty much be incontrovertible evidence.
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Well, according to OP he only got to know about this via the video. So I'm sure he has this.
 
abzo said:
Instead of digging the condom out of the trash and basting herself like any normal person, she decided to drug you?! That’s crazy. Sorry.
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Do you remember that guy from Brakpan who was in love with his cousin? Always had good Friday threads.

Apologies for OT but this thread reminded me of him.
 
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maumau said:
Do you remember that guy from Brakpan who was in love with his cousin? Always had good Friday threads.

Apologies for OT but this thread reminded me of him.
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News24? He’s still around (has moved to the red neck part of America where such things aren’t frowned upon) but we need to subscribe to view his threads.
 
Lupus said:
That's the problem, apparently it's okay for women to rape men, as oh you're a guy you should enjoy it. When in reality it's a violation just as much.
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Exactly. People don't even want to hear about the guy being the victim. They'll just give you a high 5.

Happened to me when I was a 19, and it messed me up for a while. I turned down a 24 year old who wouldn't take no for an answer, so she drugged me and I woke up with her having her way with me and told her to stop. So she freaking asks me if her friend who is watching can join us. It sounds like every guys dream and if I was single it probably would have been a very different story. But I was not willing and did not consent. It didn't even cross my mind that I was a victim until years later.
 
/question.
How do you get it 'up' when you're drugged?
I wouldn't be able to :p
Heck, my meds knocked me out since the AM hours to 14:00 today.
There's no way anyone could rape me when I'm drugged.
I'm not trying to be funny.
 
|tera| said:
/question.
How do you get it 'up' when you're drugged?
I wouldn't be able to :p
Heck, my meds knocked me out since the AM hours to 14:00 today.
There's no way anyone could rape me when I'm drugged.
I'm not trying to be funny.
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It depends on the drugs.
 
abzo said:
News24? He’s still around (has moved to the red neck part of America where such things aren’t frowned upon) but we need to subscribe to view his threads.
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That's the one, you've got a memory like a machine :)

LOLZ at such things aren't frowned upon.
 
|tera| said:
/question.
How do you get it 'up' when you're drugged?
I wouldn't be able to :p
Heck, my meds knocked me out since the AM hours to 14:00 today.
There's no way anyone could rape me when I'm drugged.
I'm not trying to be funny.
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I was wondering the same thing but then some guys said it's an involuntary thing.
 
maumau said:
I was wondering the same thing but then some guys said it's an involuntary thing.
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I guess as pinball_wizard said.
It's different based on drug used.
The same as roofies used mainly for drugging and raping women.
People seem to 'do' things in these invasive scenarios which they would never do normally.

@OP. Start seeing a professional psychologist as soon as you can.
I confess, I am not a shrink fan.
They will however be able to teach you coping mechanisms and help you to avoid depression about the situation.

I have also been sexually abused, as a child though. It had adverse effects on me up to my 20's.

Just know your dignity is not gone. Be responsible and proactive as you've been so far. Don't stress about shtty consequences, because it's not your fault. It will never be your fault.
 
This is why you do not make friends with or hang around with loose or desperate women. It requires a bit of forward thinking. The blame here is partly yours.
 
Shaun108 said:
This is why you do not make friends with or hang around with loose or desperate women. It requires a bit of forward thinking. The blame here is partly yours.
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OP - disregard ignorant statements like these - they're akin to the men can't be raped type of statements.

I do wonder though how the reporting of the crime went - OP please give some feedback when you get a chance.
 
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