so i got the windows 10 key for the microserver (i don''t think that win 11 is going to work with it) and i got a win 11 Pro key for the laptop and i'm busy downloading fresh copies of the install files onto my flash drives in order to do the re-installs
funny thing though is that in prep of the re-install i updated the bios of the laptop and also switched off memory integrity which is what was giving me the grief and now the laptop is running absolutely fine - its gone back to the speed you expect a PC to be working at but i'm hoping that the new fresh install on the SSD is going to make things faster (especially boot-up times) - gonna keep that updated Dell version of win 11 on the regular hard drive - so if i have any issues with the SSD i still have an operational laptop with the regular conventional drive (just have to change the default boot device in the bios)
then in terms of the dex setup - i found this unit here which might just work a helluva lot better as an 8 in 1 USB hub
https://www.takealot.com/orro-8-in-1-type-c-hub-40gbps-thunderbolt-hdmi-usb-c-a-ethernet-/
PLID95953517?colour_variant=Pro
so going to order this one and see if it does what i want - it most likely wont allow my 4TB hard drives to recognise but if i connect this to the phone then connect the power bank to the PD USB C-1 connection and then the monitor to the USB C-2 connection and the display signal passes on to the monitor for Dex purposes then its a perfect unit for Dex while there is no wall power to connect to - then i know i will be able to connect either a small portable SSD or large Flash drive with media to the hub as well and then everything will work as i need it to ...... just depends on whether can make that video signal pass through this but R899 for this pro version is a bit of a heftier amount to just lose if it doesn't work - but i'm going to take a bit of a punt on this one doing what i need it to ...... as they say YOLO